I am still undecided. I personally feel that whether we stay in or go out, we will still be ruled by a bunch of elites who spend more time looking after themselves and their pals than taking care of the country/the EU as a whole. Any notion that the EU is a benevolent institution that gives support and protection to its members if they fall upon hard times must surely be questioned when seeing the way Greece has been treated.
My husband is a fervent "leaver" and has put posters up on the front of our house - as have a couple of other neighbours. One of my problems is that, along with these two sets of selfish and un-neighbourly neighbours, I dislike most of the high profile people who want to leave - I can't stand Boris Johnson, Michael Gove, Iain Duncan Smith, Nigel Farage, Julia Hartley-Brewer, et al, and wouldn't trust them as far as I could throw them.
My husband's belief is that we can change our government but we have had, and will continue to have, very little influence over the decisions that the EU makes and may be swept along by an organisation that some feel represents the interests of big business and powerful organisations. I am suspicious when all the "big guns" such Obama, Mark Carney, the CBI, senior military figures, and even the unions, etc., seem so determined to frighten the British public into staying in.
But .... although I feel it is theoretically the case that that we can remove our own governments much more easily than influence decisions in the EU, I also believe that that our media (owned primarily by the super-rich) has such a right wing bias that there is no real choice and I fear we will have a Tory or Tory-lite government in perpetuity. This government has already expressed its dislike of what they call "red tape" but which many people suspect means environmental, employment and consumer protections, so there is a very real danger that if we leave these protections will go out the window.
So, what to do? I really don't know.
Ana The opinions on this thread as to whether to stay or leave seem to me to represent more "Brexiters", so your comment that those who wish to leave the EU may be keeping quiet for fear of receiving a "scathing" is, I think, unfounded.