I think we are talking to each other as AYP never came back. He/she just wanted to give us some vitriol.
For what it's worth I voted to stay in the EU, and as far as I can tell so did my friends,bar one , and at least she used her vote. Many of my DS's friends didn't bother voting as they assumed we would stay in the EU anyway.
We never had any money when I was bringing up our kids although we worked long hours. I didn't go to university and my sister was the first person to go in our family.
I saved as much as I could and by the time our children went to university I had enough to pay for them, so they came out with very little debt. We've lent them money for cars, deposit on a house. MY DS and DiL have much more disposable income than we did at that age, but they work hard too.
I care for my Dad so he doesn't cost the state more than he has to, and we are frequent baby sitters.
Of course I care about the future, not just for my family's sake but for all those less fortunate. Oh, I could go on, but thanks gransnetters you've already said it better than I could. I've been interested in the replies. Much more eloquent and well informed than AYP, who probably hasn't looked at any.