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I've made a faux pas!

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Grannyben Fri 29-Jul-16 19:02:17

How many times do we say on this site "don't say it, keep your thoughts to yourself". I know that so why didn't I put my brain in gear before I opened my mouth? My DD is expecting her second baby in January and has just had her first scan (all well). Whilst chatting excitedly I asked if they had thought of any names and she replied "oh yes, we like Ezra" to which I immediately replied "oh poor baby, he'll get bullied at school". Needless to say my comment went down like a lead balloon. Note to self - engage brain, smile sweetly (oh and perhaps hope for a girl).

Anya Mon 01-Aug-16 07:05:20

With so many unusual names about I doubt they are a bullying matter. I like Ezra too and I think you could perhaps tell the parents that the name is growing in you.

I hated GS3's name when I first heard it suggested. I won't repeat it on here as it's very unusual and I've never heard another child with this name. But the name as now grown to be him and he now fits it. He's very popular at school so I wouldn't worry about the bullying aspect at all.

morethan2 Mon 01-Aug-16 07:13:52

Grannyben that made me grin

Nelliemoser Mon 01-Aug-16 07:56:05

purpledaffodill Via my work I encountered the name Crimea! For one reason and another I never learnt what gender this child was.
I started thinking of similar name sources. Sebastopol. Somme, Bosworth the possibilities are endless.

gettingonabit Mon 01-Aug-16 08:49:04

Someone I know called his son Elijah, which for some reason I found hysterically funny and couldn't suppress a loud snorting laugh, which I tried to contain behind my hand, without success.

He barked "haven't you read Lord of the Rings, ffs"?

I've read Lord of the Rings twice but can't see the connection grin.

Meriel Mon 01-Aug-16 10:44:52

When my son's wife was expecting they told us that if it was a girl they were going to call her 'Agnes'. I thought they were choking and laughed but they weren't. Evidently our DIL had a favourite Aunt with that name. Anyway they changed there minds (whether as a result of my reaction I don't know) and gave her a more conventional name with Agnes as a second name. Our GD is very proud of her name!

JackyB Mon 01-Aug-16 11:33:28

I don't like my DGD's name, but as my son and the mother are not married they had agreed that their children would take his surname and the mother could choose the first name. So the name they have given her is not unknown in the English-speaking world, but has different connotations and sounds not only old-fashioned, but coarse and ugly. In German it sounds simple and feminine and doesn't seem to have any of these connotations.

The little girl herself is adorable, of course.

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 01-Aug-16 11:53:23

gettingonabit in case you don't know, the actor who played Frodo in the films is Elijah Wood.

gettingonabit Mon 01-Aug-16 16:47:36

Thanks, wilma. That must be it-Frodo Baggins. Bit behind the times, me!

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 01-Aug-16 22:42:00

Now Frodo, that's a name to raise eyebrows! grin

Jalima Mon 01-Aug-16 22:54:38

There's bound to be one somewhere!!

LullyDully Tue 02-Aug-16 08:25:22

Elijah was a family name up until recently. They came from Somerset. My Dad's middle name and my grandfather's name. A relief , my brother was Christopher.

annsixty Tue 02-Aug-16 09:08:47

I saw a press report that someone was going to call her baby Riggins with Blaine as his middle name. Poor baby.

Gononsuch Tue 02-Aug-16 09:19:30

I think its only Grans that use the full name. In the supermarket the other day it came over strong and quite funny really Sebastian, put that back now, the child about 3 the Gran about 70.

I named our Son after his Dad, it that done any more.

annemac101 Tue 02-Aug-16 17:34:39

A good few years ago my friends sister and her hubby were expecting their second child. They travelled a lot in Europe with his job living in different countries. The first child ,a girl was named Scarlett an unusual name back then. Her mother found it very difficult to get used to a strange name. Her second baby was also a girl to be called Peaches. My friend said her mum was so relieved it was another granddaughter and not a grandson. When I asked why she said because the name they had picked for a boy was Jesus and her mum said she would never be able to show her face in Chapel again.