Please does anyone else have this problem, I have been with my partner for 15 years when I met him I did not have any grandchildren now I have four that I see, the fifth unfortunately do not see as he does not see my son, his dad and therefore it's very difficult but I do what I can. My problem is that my partner has never had children he finds it very difficult when they are around especially my daughters twin boys who are what you could call Full on, he doesn't like them staying at the house and the atmosphere sometimes it's awful when they are around , I find myself being piggy in the middle and trying to make everyone happy. This weekend we had a row because I was looking after my grand son for the weekend, he had gone out on the Saturday , during that time my son arrived with my granddaughter and they decided to want to stay the night, he had a problem with this, set should've had some together on our own without kids around but they were there already , we went to the pub for dinner Sunday and he refused to come my daughter came with her other two children so there was the family that he just will not get involved with, I've come to a point that I'm so fed up with it and I do not know what to do, I love my family very much I brought them up on my own and I put them before anything, admit defeat, Grateful for any advice.
