The other side of the coin.
My OH had a 'family member' subscription for years, firstly to include his children, then grandchildren. However they are now living separate lives and a few years ago my aged Mum visited us. We took her to a nearby NT house using her wheelchair and asked if we could use the 'family' ticket to include her. No, apparently not, she is not family. As we had not used our membership cards for the previous two years it seemed a bit harsh. Subsequently I persuaded him to reduce it to joint membership.
However, the powers to be have consistently refused over the last few years to acknowledge that I am a partner and not married to him. Despite endless phone calls and e-mails the cards still came through to him and his ex-wife, not appreciated by me. This year is the first time they have deigned to give me my own card, although we are interested to see what happens next year as I appear to have a different membership number and time of expiry!
As far as I am concerned this organisation has got far to big and away from its original roots and if it is was my decision I would cease membership.
As one other poster said, they are always begging for more and I really dislike the way it is run these days.
Sorry for rant, I feel much better now. 