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Age gaps between your children that make younger ones, young Aunts and Uncles.

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MammaTJ Wed 26-Oct-16 21:27:07

There are 10 years between DD1 and DD2 and 11 years between DD1 and DS.

DD1 is 21 and has a 9 month old baby.

We all spent the day together and swapped kids. DD1 took DD2 and DS to do the fun things that take a lot of energy in the pool, then on the fun rides at the funfair, while I splashed around in the baby pool with DGD and then sat on a bench with her, while she slept.

We all had a great time, Auntie and Uncle love their niece and big sis very much, and it is totally reciprocated.

We bumped into friends who have similar, a Grown up DD, with her toddler and baby and and 11 year old who is Auntie to them and a slightly younger Aunt too.

We had a brief chat about it, the fact that being a Gran is wonderful and the younger kids love being Aunties and Uncle. I feel the Grandchildren benefit a lot from having these people not too much older than them, that care about them loads.

I have an Auntie who is 12 years older than me, and now I am nearly 50, we are so very close and I love it.

I wondered if many of you have similar experiences?

Spangles1963 Thu 27-Oct-16 17:22:33

My DD has an uncle who is 9 years younger than her! She was born in 1983. That same year my exH's father remarried a woman quite a few years younger than himself. In late 1991,his wife discovered she was pregnant,at the age of 44. She had a son in June 1992. My DD daughter was rather confused by her baby uncle!

jusnoneed Thu 27-Oct-16 18:04:11

I have an aunt who is slightly younger than myself, I was born in January and she was born in March of same year. My mum was the eldest and aunt was the youngest of the family. We spent a lot of time together as children so were fairly close. It used to cause some puzzled looks when we told people she was my auntie.
My eldest son is 12 years older than my second son, so when eldest Granddaughter was born my youngest became an uncle when aged 6.

Cath9 Thu 27-Oct-16 18:40:13

There is just 8 yrs between mine, but I had no choice and the second one I didn't know was on the way until I was coming up to five months. I will admit the oldest was great looking when looking after the younger one

Swanny Thu 27-Oct-16 18:40:56

I feel totally confused reading these explanations of family relationships!

My mother was born about halfway through a family of 12 siblings. Her next younger sister had a baby 'out of wedlock' about a year after I was born and apparently my parents looked after him for a while, although I have no memory of this. He was returned to the family home aged about 3 and brought up as the youngest of the family, calling our grandparents 'Mam and Dad'. I was led to believe he was an uncle, not a cousin, for many years after confused]

PatB8 Thu 27-Oct-16 18:53:59

I have a brother 18 years older than me and a sister 15 years older. My mum was 44 when I was born and I was 42 when my second son was born 16 years after his brother. History repeating itself my mum said.!!

watermeadow Thu 27-Oct-16 20:03:30

There are many families on my family tree with a dozen children spread over twenty five years. The eldest ones were having children at the same time as their parents were having their younger ones
I chose to have my four in seven years, I don't like big gaps.

LullyDully Thu 27-Oct-16 20:05:24

My son, 36 has cousins the same age as his children, 10 and 12. Uncle married late.

nanalounet Thu 27-Oct-16 23:35:44

My youngest GS (5 months) is Uncle to my GGS (4 months)

SallyDapp Sat 29-Oct-16 18:38:07

My DD by my first marriage and our DS were 17 & 11 when we started fostering, in the 22 years since then 3 of the many visiting Children have stayed permanently within our family, 2 DS with us now aged 29 &14 and our wonderful GD age 15 having been adopted by our DD. So our fostered DS3 is now uncle to our GD who was his sister for the first 4 years and is a year older than him. Confused? DS3 was, when asked where babies came from he said 'social workers bring them'. You don't need to be blood related to be a family!

trendygran Sat 29-Oct-16 21:11:48

A long time ago but my late DH was an uncle at six weeks and again at 6 years old. His half sister was 23 when he was born so he grew up with her 2 sons. He also became an uncle again to a niece at 10 years old. The daughter of his other half sister.

nnniiimmmaaa Tue 18-May-21 18:13:01

Out of 10 children of my mother's uncles, 8 of them are younger than me, from the age difference of a few months to about 18 years !!!

nnniiimmmaaa Tue 18-May-21 18:14:22

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nnniiimmmaaa Tue 18-May-21 18:16:23

Out of 10 children of my mother's uncles, 8 of them are younger than me, from the age difference of a few months to about 18 years!!!

nnniiimmmaaa Tue 18-May-21 18:24:57

Out of 10 children of my mother's uncles, 8 of them are younger than me, from the age difference of a few months to about 18 years!!!https://www.gransnet.com/emo/te/5.gif

nanna8 Wed 19-May-21 09:48:06

One of my great grandchildren is exactly the same age as one of my grandchildren . Both 2.