For those with a sense of humour (and a love of the French!)

I can look at the pics and think "nice looking guy!" But like a lot of women, I need to know and like the personality and make an emotional connection before being really attracted. Someone's looks can grow on you if you like their personality and character.

Lilyflower good for you. I married a thin intellectual but they are out of fashion now and we don't tweet or Skype but understand each other.

I thought the men with their trousers half down-or half up a real put off.

Agreed Day6! I like a nicely cut suit any day over the muscle six pack look, brains and a sense of humour are my thing

I'm with Day6. I've always thought my husband more attractive when wearing a smart suit. Even more so in a dinner suit. Slouching around the house in comfortable, ( often old ) clothes doesn't quite do it. Says me, who does the same! I should look to my laurels.