Flying visit. The tree and littlest survived intact, phew, frantic day but such fun. We now have the older girls for 48 hours, peaceful right now, Mr C is entertaining one, the other is entertaining herself. Plan to go out after lunch, a bracing walk on the beach should ensure a restful night! We're taking them out for breakfast tomorrow, their favourite treat at the moment, it seems very grown up and does make for an easy day food-wise, they eat so much there isn't room for much else.
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Love the card soop and the photos daphne, I so love to hear of other people's happiness. Oliver sounds to have recovered swiftly, glammanana, I'm sure he is enjoying being pampered and will forgive you - one day 
The car irritation sounds to be a major inconvenience n&g, nothing to do but what you have to I guess, but yes, do send that letter afterwards, if nothing else it may stop it happening to some other soul. Some irritation is allowed to show.
A lot is expected of bereaved people. callgirl, sorry you have had this to manage on top of everything else. I've taken the easy way with gifts this year , bought bags with a tie top, (shopping channels have their uses even if the family mock
), in goes the present, tie the top into a bow and its done. Major relief around here.
Best be off, before I know it there will be hungry grumpiness if lunch is late. Sending good wishes to all, especially those with a personal mountain still to climb.