I'm aware I'm setting myself up for a slating on this, and am pretty good at slating myself.
Hubby and I are smokers. We have a biggish house (11 rooms) and only ever smoke in two of them - the breakfast room at the far end of the house with open window/door and a study which is sealed around the door. Both rooms have an expensive air purifying machine with carbon filter. We keep other room doors shut at all times and they are also sealed around the door.
We keep trying to give up (for ourselves) but haven't managed it. We often ask visitors if they can smell smoke in the house and they say not.
I know all about second- and third-hand smoke, so I'm fastidious about cleaning with sugar soap and vinegar any surfaces that could be touched by a child, and hoover carpets regularly. Obviously also food-preparation surfaces. I also wash curtains/cushions frequently - none of this because I am houseproud but to protect the children as much as I can.
We have never smoked around the grandchildren (age 4 and 2). We don't smoke at all on days we see them, whether at our house or elsewhere. We wear freshly-washed clothes - sometimes even new clothes - whenever we see them, which is not more than once a month and usually in their home, not ours, or at the park.
We have child seats in the car so never smoke in there. We either use our e-cigarettes or stop the car en-route and get out to smoke.
Despite all this our daughter is still not happy about us looking after the kiddies even at her own house, and less so at ours. She will put up with a visit to us at Christmas, for a few hours only, but we have never been allowed to have them stay overnight. If she is desperate she will ask us to have them at hers for a morning, but would rather it were not at all unless we give up smoking altogether.
I know the smoking is preventing us from having a fuller share in the grandchildren's lives, but we have done absolutely everything we can to minimise any possible risk to them apart from the obvious.
Does anybody have any constructive comments to make, and yes, I am prepared for the worst!
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