On Wednesday I was due to go out to my friends I was taking the dog to be clipped. I suddenly got violent stomach pains. I literally could not stand. I pressed my friends no on the phone. Told her I could not come as I had violent pain. In a really cold tone she said "What can I do about it", she really sounded impatient. I said it's okay and put the phone down. I had tried to ring GP phones busy. Rang 111 they got a GP to speak to me. It was diverticulitis problem. She did turn up eventually and stayed while I got intructions from GP. I usually speak to her a couple of times a day. She did call me late on Wed night to see how I got on at GP.. I have no close family and she is my next of kin. I feel really upset and since the call on Wed have not rung her. I feel now that I cannot call her in an emergency. She will know I am upset as I have not called for 2 days it is usually me that calls.
I really get frustrated as she often instigates holiday planning gets me to look into trips and then goes cold on the idea. We have been friends 25 years she knew all my family before they died. So I consider her as like a sister but sometimes she really upsets me. In fact sometimes I feel she loves the dog more than me. Sorry for the rant I am feeling hurt
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