This is a rant. Feel guilty because it all seems trivial but, added together, it's driving me a bit nuts.
The hearing thing: almost every remark I make to DH is answered by 'huh?' I've now discovered that he's heard what I've said in the first place. Sometimes have to repeat what I've said twice or three times. Makes me give up even attempting conversation
'You've got something on your lip": has happened on numerous occasions. I can be in the middle of telling him something quite important, he stops listening in order to point this out. Drives me nuts. Question is, am I nuts for finding this so annoying?
Constant debates: Nothing is ever straightforward. Never says 'OK, you're right' Always produces counter-argument. It's wearing (and boring) Is this what a contrarian is?
Please offer help. I feel like a complete cow for complaining to him - he definitely is a perfectionist and feels anxious a lot of the time (I suspect - he'd never admit it)