Good morning all.
I was wondering as I read some threads if I am, well, peculiar, or a rare breed.
For so many, the antidote to woes is to find people to talk to or to share problems. Not only that, so many people choose activities to be with other people or do charity work which means they meet others.
I have rarely felt the need to share my problems, and, this is strange, although I am chatty and pleasant, and can easily make small talk when in the shops etc, for much of the time I am happiest on my own, with my books, favourite TV programmes, garden etc. I have always disliked team exercises we had to do at work too and I am not fond of chatting on the phone either.
I have a wonderful OH, but I need space from him too at times, and lots of groups of friends, some of them from over 40 years ago. I have adult children that I see a few times a month, and lovely grandchildren too, that we see regularly.
However, my default position seems to be privacy, and time to myself, when I can listen to the radio, read, muse, potter, and unscheduled interruptions I find a bit annoying. I am not one to feel happy when people just call round, uninvited.
When I am with people I am fine, not stand-offish or anything, I genuinely like people, and I think I am kind-hearted, but I prefer days to myself, and often the thought of occasions with others I dread, although I am fine once I get there, and good company too, I hope, but I am always glad when they end because I can feel quite drained by it all. Strangely, people imagine I am gregarious because I am never lost for words.
I appreciate I am lucky to have family, friends and loved ones, but deep down, I suspect I am a bit of a loner, and happy with my own company. I have no need to join activities, etc.
Does that sound familiar to anyone else?
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