Hello Flossie,
Are you on Pinterest? There are lots of great pins on there that will give you great ideas about how to update your make up, hair and style to look great and make the most of yourself as your skin tone changes and your hair turns silver. One good one is Look Fabulous Forever, it's full of inspiring ideas on how to update your look. As we get older there's no need to give up on make up, but we do need to change the shades and types of products we use to suit our changing needs. My hair has been silver for over 20 years and I used to have it in highlights and lowlights, but about 12 years ago I went into a salon in Soho and asked the stylist to cut as much of the colour out as possible as I was going to go au natural, but I didn't want to look like an old lady! She cut it into a super short pixie cut and I've never looked back. I use violet shampoo and conditioner to keep it bright and serum and hair oil to give it shine. I've had my non existent eye brows tattooed back in place ( they look very natural ) and I use cc cream and a Clinique chubby stick blusher in a berry shade. My lipstick is also a berry shade and I use a neutral eye shadow with black mascara on my upper lasher only as I have quite pronounced shadows under my eyes. I use a colour corrector and YSL touche eclat to help with this. I also wear glasses and favour a strong colour in a fashionable Ray Ban shape. My favourites are a deep blue and a burgundy pair which go with most of my wardrobe. Don't be intimidated by the girls on the make up counters, they don't just want to sell to teenagers and young girls, but do pick a brand that sells good products ( you already have some good brands!) and tell the assistant you want a natural look that will enhance your features. I personally like Bobbie Brown, Clinique and Mac as their products are good quality and they have good natural shades. If they are too pricey, just look for similar shades in a cheaper brand. There are some fantastic products out there now for us older ladies, apparently manufacturers have woken up to the fact that these days over 60's are not all spending our days at home knitting, and we want to look our best! I hope you find some products to suit you as I firmly believe if you feel good about yourself, you will have a more positive attitude to life. Ps...Pinterest is very addictive, but you will enjoy looking for ideas to inspire you. Best of luck! ☺️