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GNHQ please make it clear that these forums are public!

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Grannyknot Tue 15-Aug-17 16:25:44

I am forever warning people that these forums are public and a thread may end up on Facebook.

I really think that GNHQ should put a note on the Forum home page to that effect in big, bold, text - red, underlined, anything to draw attention to that fact. Put it in the welcome email too. Especially as some posters are not only new to GN, but new to forums.

I can't bear to think that an already stressful situation is made worse for someone because their posts are used as a "trailer" on the Facebook page.

(Writing this because I noticed that someone has been caught out by this, how upsetting).

Jalima1108 Wed 16-Aug-17 19:52:11

On a lighter note - Jalima, have a lovely time in Crete, but don't tell Gransnetters when you go unless you want FB to know
Thanks dbDB grin
I'll let you know when I come back - WARNING - never post your holiday pics on any forum when you're away - wait until you come home again (if at all).

Now, where're my holiday brochures?

seacliff Wed 16-Aug-17 18:45:46

It will sadly stop a lot of people asking for help and advice, fb is just too public, even with real names not shown.

Crafting Wed 16-Aug-17 18:43:37

Keep this thread at the top of the page so others know this too

FarNorth Wed 16-Aug-17 15:49:38

GNHQ puts quotes from selected threads on Facebook. Each quote includes a link to that thread and you are then on the GN site and able to see anything that's there.

Eloethan Wed 16-Aug-17 15:33:50

Are you saying that all threads, in their entirety, can be accessed on Facebook? I too wasn't aware that anything from here went on Facebook.

I'm not particularly concerned about it because I don't post much personal or sensitive information, other than a personal profile which I'm not that bothered about. But I agree that there should be a clear warning on the site that everything written by posters on any subject is available to whoever chooses to look.

MissAdventure Wed 16-Aug-17 15:24:56

Well, I don't use Facebook, which is why I objected in the first place. Oh well..
I'm no more inclined to start using Facebook, just less inclined to use gransnet.

gillybob Wed 16-Aug-17 15:22:31

I believe there are already one or two on the go FarNorth .

MargaretX Wed 16-Aug-17 15:21:42

Since I have been aware that everything we write on line is public I have deleted quite a few posts before sending them.

I have always been amazed at how open a lot of posters are about very intimate details of their life. This was not the feeling I had when GN began and because we are an interesting group of people with more to say than most under 45s FB can get a bit of quality onto their pages.

Good point made grannyknot

FarNorth Wed 16-Aug-17 15:19:44

"maybe we should have a closed group on facebook instead."

On facebook, people usually use their real names so that would have drawbacks too.

gillybob Wed 16-Aug-17 15:00:41

Bless him, my dad has shrunk considerably since I said that annsixty smile

annsixty Wed 16-Aug-17 14:53:21

Well gilly as you once said, which sticks in my mind forever, only because I wanted to say it myself but was too scared, my dad's bigger than dad, so there,?

gillybob Wed 16-Aug-17 14:52:42

Just removed my profile. sad

gillybob Wed 16-Aug-17 14:48:03

Well the weather where I live is always amazing. 30 degrees sunshine every day. I have 5 children and 18 grandchildren. I am 72 years old, took early retirement at 45 (I was an astro physicist). I love opera music, worldwide travel and I'm not ashamed to admit I am very wealthy too.

Wheniwasyourage Wed 16-Aug-17 14:40:07

But remember not to say in too much detail what your weather is like in case someone can identify you from that...

Anniebach Wed 16-Aug-17 14:38:22

Best we stick to the weather, recipes and TV and books

gillybob Wed 16-Aug-17 14:32:50

Totally agree Wheniwasyourage

Wheniwasyourage Wed 16-Aug-17 14:31:06

I'm another one who avoids FB and Twitter from choice and I do not want anything I say to be put on to them as a matter of course. I am well aware that anything one puts on the internet cannot be regarded as private, but that's not the same as having ones's posts deliberately given to other social media. Obviously I am not the only one who chooses not to engage with these media and who will be much more guarded about what I say on GN in future.

BlueBelle Wed 16-Aug-17 14:24:47

I totally agree Seacliff I don't remember being asked if I minded when I joined I m not saying I wasn't as I have a memory like a sieve but I m pretty sure I wouldn't have ticked that box so don't think I was asked
I certainly don't want things I ve said on fb or Twitter so if we don't get some answers soon I will be very hesitant about writing anything bar very innocuous stuff

Tizliz Wed 16-Aug-17 14:18:18

Who will police who can join a closed group? I belong to a closed group and it is personal recommendation only but it is a very small group.

seacliff Wed 16-Aug-17 14:08:48

If this is going to continue, maybe we should have a closed group on facebook instead.

seacliff Wed 16-Aug-17 14:06:33

I strongly OBJECT to any of my posts being shared on social media! Where was I told this could happen when I joined GN?

Did I sign an agreement allowing this?

It is a step too far. Most of us had no idea you were doing this. We should be able to opt out if we choose.

Tizliz Wed 16-Aug-17 14:05:27

ninathenana you don't see MumsNet posts on Facebook as you are not following them. If you search MumsNet.com on Facebook you will see the posts.

Crafting Wed 16-Aug-17 13:46:38

More answers needed to other posts on this thread GNHQ. We are not happy ?

MissAdventure Wed 16-Aug-17 13:20:41

I wonder if any of this thread will make its way there?

Bobbysgirl19 Wed 16-Aug-17 13:11:46

Googled Gransnet Facebook this morning. I am not a member of Facebook never want to be! However it was an eye opener! Already posts on there from the last 24 hours which I had read on this forum this morning.
I don't know how they had been selected, but certainly some contentious issues!