I think that, quite often, fellow gransnetters have pointed it out to people in the past if they feel the poster has given away too much in the way of personal details. Perhaps, in the future we should all not be backwards in coming forwards if we feel something like that has is happening, possibly just by informing HQ and asking them for their opinion of the content.
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Unbearable grief compounded by our adult children’s reactions


Maggie
I'm frightened to Google my name. I'll leave it to anyone who gets an inkling of who I am and decides to check me out, if ever anyone is that interested (which I strongly doubt)