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Gransnet thread in Daily Mail on-line today.

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MotherHubbard Tue 10-Oct-17 12:53:05

‘Grandmothers engage in fierce debate about loving their grandchildren more than their offspring’.
Don’t really want to admit to looking at Daily Mail on-line but noticed this article today with a link to full thread on Gransnet. I know there was a discussion a while ago about threads being allowed to be used outside of this forum such as Facebook and some members weren’t aware this forum is not private so thought I would just mention it again.

Tegan2 Wed 11-Oct-17 14:20:57

I think that, quite often, fellow gransnetters have pointed it out to people in the past if they feel the poster has given away too much in the way of personal details. Perhaps, in the future we should all not be backwards in coming forwards if we feel something like that has is happening, possibly just by informing HQ and asking them for their opinion of the content.

Grannyknot Wed 11-Oct-17 14:12:40

Hi Lara thanks for the info. 're the name change - that doesn't help if the circumstance(s) described identifies the person. So perhaps GN could also point out that individual posts/replies on a thread will be deleted if the person who had given too much away requests that.

LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 11-Oct-17 12:31:50

Hi everyone

Firstly, thanks for drawing our attention to this. To be absolutely clear, we don't have any arrangement with the DM to share anything from the forums.

As many of you have rightly pointed out, this is a bit of grey area in terms of legality and DM would probably claim Fair Use.

The truth is that Gransnet is an open site. Anyone can access it for advice at any time of the day or night. For the most part this is a good thing and allows everyone to have immediate access to a wide variety of viewpoints and collective wisdom.

But yes, this is a public forum, and may come up in Google searches. If anyone is concerned we are more than happy to change your username for sensitive posts. Email us at contactus@ and we'll do that for you. We can change it back again afterwards if that's what you would like.

Best
GNHQ

POGS Wed 11-Oct-17 11:11:05

Maryeliza

Did you read the topics other papers have raised ?

I am not interested in defending nor castigating the Daily Mail . The point is what ever we post is open for consumption by the media and other sources of gossip and it is worth remembering .

annodomini Wed 11-Oct-17 11:06:15

I wasn't quoted in the article, but anyway I guess that my pseudonym could apply to a good many of the members of GN!

maryeliza54 Wed 11-Oct-17 11:02:30

I think there’s a difference between reporting the opinions of a poll conducted by GN which is part of an initiative to address the problem of loneliness and lifting a whole thread with usernames. The latter is lazy journalism the former was not.

POGS Wed 11-Oct-17 10:30:29

www.theguardian.com/society/2017/mar/21/three-quarters-of-older-people-in-the-uk-are-lonely-survey-finds

"The poll by Gransnet, the over-50s social networking site, also found that about seven in 10 (71%) respondents – average age 63 – said their close friends and family would be surprised or astonished to hear that they felt lonely."
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www.gransnet.com/info/in-the-news

Worth looking at!
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It is not just a Daily Mail issue so be careful.

The thread on this subject a while ago was an eye opener and I admit to being a tad naive until I read it.

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1239569-GNHQ-please-make-it-clear-that-these-forums-are-public



www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1239569-GNHQ-please-make-it-clear-that-these-forums-are-public

annsixty Wed 11-Oct-17 10:26:04

When I googled my username the first thing that came up was a thread I started on GN. Any one knowing me could have worked out who I was and then checked for anything else I had posted.
I feel very vulnerable now and will only post about soupmakers and other domestic trivia in future.

Bellanonna Wed 11-Oct-17 10:05:01

I’m a gourmet pizza ! Name literally translates as beautiful granny. The granny is the only correct bit.

Jane10 Wed 11-Oct-17 09:45:10

Blimey -I'm a bourbon whiskey! Shame I can't stand the stuff.

Welshwife Wed 11-Oct-17 09:35:23

Mine came up with links to news items about Mme Fillon and other people who had Welsh wives!

Blinko Wed 11-Oct-17 09:22:04

I googled myself (user name) and looked as far as 13 pages, no mention. It seems I'm a musician, author, toy bear, mathematician (yeah, right!). More pages to go, so someone would have to be very keen to go to those lengths to find me posting a question about soap.... ha ha

harrigran Wed 11-Oct-17 08:54:25

The one thread we would like the newspapers to pick up on will go unnoticed.

Elegran Wed 11-Oct-17 08:50:32

Perhaps we should all stop posting that link to the DM page and publicising it even further? Expressing shock/horror at them for repeating it while adding a link to the page just increases their visitor count even more.

Elegran Wed 11-Oct-17 08:47:25

GG2 GN have stated categorically on another thread that they DO NOT supply stuff to the DM - and it is quite obvious that as GN is a public site, with everything out in the open on the internet, there is no need for them to "sell" what is posted. It has already been given away by the posters!

GracesGranMK2 Wed 11-Oct-17 08:29:04

Did they get paid for this? They are a commercial site after all.

I find it shocking too even though it's happened before and I know the posts not belonging to us but to GN.

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4965522/Grands-engage-debate-loving-grandchildren-more.html

notnecessarilywiser Wed 11-Oct-17 08:20:16

Bambam - some user names are identifiable. For example those like "Dottiesgran" or "Fredsmum" in conjunction with in-thread info about location/holiday destination/hobby. Ditto "FenellaS"-type names and even "Bambam" if that's what you're known as in your family circle.

Marydoll Wed 11-Oct-17 08:15:41

I am a rather risque outfit available from a well known sexy lingerie store. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Menopaws Wed 11-Oct-17 08:11:43

Apparently I am a book and an agility class in America!

MissAdventure Wed 11-Oct-17 00:26:13

grin Maggie

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Oct-17 00:25:20

When I googled my username I found that there are a lot of Maggiemaybes out there, all having interesting times, writing thrillers, making music, designing stuff. Seven pages in I came across myself, droning on about soupmakers....

MissAdventure Tue 10-Oct-17 23:21:34

hmm I'm frightened to Google my name. I'll leave it to anyone who gets an inkling of who I am and decides to check me out, if ever anyone is that interested (which I strongly doubt)

Nelliemoser Tue 10-Oct-17 23:18:21

Have any of you googled you username to see what happens?
There was one thing on there I am not happy about but having the name of a variety of a plant although spelling is different might confuse my identity.
Try it.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Oct-17 23:13:02

Its pretty easy, I would think. Most post about their lives (without too much actual detail) enough that I can remember bits and bobs about the names I see on here.

Bambam Tue 10-Oct-17 23:07:12

We all have pseudonyms so I don't understand how we could be recognised.