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Fennel Thu 02-Nov-17 17:48:13

I didn't know what this word meant (apart from the literal meaning) so looked it up. Do you think this is a fair defintion?
Do they really exist?
"An extremely fragile individual -often, but not always associated with millennial's. Someone who has never faced any real adversity in life and therefore is easily traumatized by anything out of the ordinary or anything contradictory to their narrow views. They've been shielded from views and perspective that persuade right of center and have been immersed in liberal propaganda in the schools and from the media. They think they are very intelligent and gifted -because their mothers, teachers and left-leaning individuals have told them so their whole lives."

Elegran Thu 02-Nov-17 18:12:33

The general description of people who wilt under the slightest hint of perceived unpleasantness or pressure is pretty accurate, provided the references to left and right are removed. What the hell has political preference to do with it? Was that definition written by someone on the left of centre who wanted it to contain a value judgment on anyone to the right of ? Comrade Lenin?

Ilovecheese Thu 02-Nov-17 18:36:11

Where did the definition come from?

paddyann Thu 02-Nov-17 19:02:07

there have always been people like this its nothing new .Sheltered and pampered and the harshness of life kept hidden from them .Its not confined to "young people"

Eglantine21 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:00:04

Oh how odd Elegran. I read it as coming from the right wing condemning the left.
They are not really fragile though. Beware the the fragile who cannot cope. They are the toughest, most determined people I know when it comes to manipulating others and getting their own way !

Fennel Thu 02-Nov-17 20:12:15

somebody called Tranquility Base:
www.urbandictionary.com/author.php?author=Tranquility%20Base

Ilovecheese Thu 02-Nov-17 20:23:04

I had a look at the Tranquility Base website. There are several definitions of 'Snowflake'

It seems to be trying to sell mugs with a definition of a word on the side.

Looks like anyone can give their own definition of a word, so don't really know whose definition it is.

Here's another one:
"An insult, used to mean that a person is too easily insulted or is too sensitive to the opinions. Mainly used by Alt-Right Trumpet blowers, who ironically, don't realize they are the very definition of the insult they love to throw around. Snowflake is used by people who are incapable of using their intellect and their words to make their point in an intelligent manner.
Look at that Alt-Right snowflakes pitching a fit over people they think do not sufficiently engage in flag worship."

(American spelling, not mine!)

Jalima1108 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:26:38

The thing about snowflakes is that they are all different. Each one is unique

Therefore using the word 'snowflake' as a general term for people of the same type of personality and disposition is very odd.

lemongrove Thu 02-Nov-17 20:28:25

It’s a word used for mainly the younger generation often students, who seem to crack easily under pressure ( or rather, hardly any pressure at all) and are offended easily.

lemongrove Thu 02-Nov-17 20:29:19

It’s also a very over used buzzword.

Jalima1108 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:30:40

You mean like 'flaming' and 'shame on insert appropriate word here'?

maryeliza54 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:31:40

When it’s used on here it’s used as an insult and it’s absolutely pathetic and generally used by the right to describe those who think that some types of behaviour are not acceptable. It’s used especially against young women who for some reason are particularly disliked by older right wing women.

Jalima1108 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:31:52

The thing about snowflakes is that, if you squeeze them all together very hard then throw them at someone, they can hurt.

Iam64 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:34:20

I prefer the definition given by Ilovecheese. I don't know any drippy young people, ours all seem to work very hard. This is all feeling a bit Groundhog Day and reminding me of the colonel types on the IofW when the festival took place, all the horror about the great unwashed, dreadful young people who didn't know the meaning of respect and hard work. Most of those young people with be our age now and will have contributed to society, worked hard and brought their own children up as well as they could. They'll now be caring for grandchildren. I pushed on of mine around today, hoping he'd fall asleep. He didn't. I met three other grandparents doing exactly the same thing.

Is calling people snowflakes - well, is it Banter?

lemongrove Thu 02-Nov-17 20:36:11

Yes Jalima exactly like that.

On here Maryeliza ?
Why do you think it is only used by ‘right wing’ people?
Where are these younger women on GN?
I haven’t seen it used much on GN at all, by left or right wing posters or any shade in between.

maryeliza54 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:36:51

lemon - you missed out the the fact that they are perceived to behave like this by older right wing women and are absolutely right to be offended by the way they are treated and patronised by said women. When I think of all the examples on here of ‘ooohhh how could you say that’ ‘ I daren’t post on xxxxxx threads’ I do wonder who the real snowflakes are - or would if it were a word that I think should be used.

BlueBelle Thu 02-Nov-17 20:37:53

I ve only heard it used by leavers describing remainders
But yes an insult for sure

maryeliza54 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:37:58

Oh it’s used and well you know and very nastily - especially when we are discussing young people

lemongrove Thu 02-Nov-17 20:38:17

Iam we are talking about what we see is the use and meaning of the word in the press, social media etc and not using it ourselves about anyone.

maryeliza54 Thu 02-Nov-17 20:38:38

That was to lemon

lemongrove Thu 02-Nov-17 20:41:36

No, Maryeliza I don’t see any use of the word in any regular way on GN at all.

Chewbacca Thu 02-Nov-17 20:51:34

I don't remember seeing anyone on GN use the term "snowflake" to anyone, of any political persuasion. Did I miss it?

Elegran Thu 02-Nov-17 20:54:25

Eglantine I was going by the last sentence, but the word could have been coined, and defined, by any group wishing to insult another group by labelling them wimps.

I don't think it is a term used against any other poster a great deal on here.

grannyactivist Thu 02-Nov-17 21:30:51

I think the background is helpful and in teaching the word now I would use the Wiki entry:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snowflake_(slang)

Eglantine21 Thu 02-Nov-17 21:32:47

Oh I see. Agree with you that politics is irrelevant unless anyone wants to drag it in.