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Would you let your 25 year-old son see you naked?

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pattypan Wed 20-Dec-17 12:13:02

I realise this is a slightly odd question but it has not come from nowhere but because Birds of A Feather Star Linda Robson said yesterday that she lets her son so he can see what real women look like. While I applaud the idea of the normalisation of women rather than the airbrushed celebrity look that is pushed in the media, I can't help thinking this is rather distasteful. Am I wrong? www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/linda-robson-lets-25-year-11721558

M0nica Tue 29-May-18 18:57:08

If I thought my son, at 25, was so stupid that he thought the airbrushed celebs and any porn he was watching was what real women looked like. I would have disowned him long before.

When our children were tiny, under 5, we didn't bother if they came into the bathroom or bedroom when we were in a state of undress so they knew what adult bodies looked like but after that privacy, for all, gradually became the norm.

Belgravian Tue 29-May-18 16:56:01

We are all real women.

This nonsense of 'real' women is pathetic.

Witzend Tue 29-May-18 15:55:20

I do get fed up with people calling us prudish compared to Germans, Scandis, etc. Personally I have no desire whatever to see droopy, flabby bodies, fat wobbly bottoms or sagging old boobs, let alone old men's dangly bits.

On a very crowded beach in Greece I once unwittingly got a far too close-up face-full of some uninhibited old German woman's fanny - not a pretty sight - enough to put me off my lunch, I can tell you.

I don't consider myself remotely prudish generally, , but some things are IMO better covered up.

oldbatty Tue 29-May-18 14:32:43

I think there have been a few close shaves here, and the look on their faces told me all I needed to know!

stevierichards1954 Tue 29-May-18 14:19:08

My son came up the stairs whole I was walking out the shower room tying my hair up. His face was worse than mine as he came face to face with my boobs
He was always been embarrassed by womens curves and me. He later got less embaresed as he got girlfriends
Even later I started sunbathing topless before my first abroad holiday in Greece.
But if he still catches me unawares in just undies he shrieks and says sorry.
Just wishhe was more modest

Skweek1 Sat 23-Dec-17 06:43:22

We've been naturists in the privacy of our own home for over 30 years and don't think twice - my 34-year-old son doesn't bat an eyelid. I put on clothes when I go out, but at home tend to wear, at most, comfy PJs. No hassle if it suits you!

NannyTee Fri 22-Dec-17 19:06:34

The human body is fine by me. It's just bloody weird for a Mature mother to show her 25 yr old son her naked body. Yuk yuk yuk

loopylou Fri 22-Dec-17 15:55:52

I agree there's nothing wrong with the human body but my DS would need brain bleach were he to see mine ?!
If it's the norm in a household then fine, but it isn't in ours, and hasn't been for a very long time.

driverann Fri 22-Dec-17 14:47:34

Nothing wrong with the human body. I life model for an art group and have done so for years, what I earn from that pays for our holidays and keeps us from struggling financially.

NannyTee Fri 22-Dec-17 09:44:00

Haha true... but neither is his Mother grin

maryeliza54 Fri 22-Dec-17 09:19:32

I don’t think the women in ‘top shelf’ magazines are a manifestation of ‘real women’ ?

DanniRae Fri 22-Dec-17 09:04:28

I was with my 33 year old son last night and told him about this thread. The look on his face meant no words were necessary - I shall describe it as a look of horror!!
BTW I wonder how her son is feeling about his mum announcing this on tv - not happy I should think.
She talks about her family all the time and, as has already been said above, is very involved with their lives. Too involved it would seem - To quote a line from Pretty Women "Big Mistake - Huge!"

Blencathra Fri 22-Dec-17 06:25:34

Absolutely not.

NannyTee Fri 22-Dec-17 04:54:58

Ness57 my friends DGC asked me what I thought the thing was on his Grans other tummy. confused

Greengage Fri 22-Dec-17 01:03:40

It is not the nudity that would bother me but the fact that having lost quite a lot of weight, I am very conscious of having a really ugly stomach!
I had an elderly great aunt who would strip off her bathing costume on the beach to dry before putting her clothes on. Her attitude was that nice people wouldn't look, and the others didn't matter!!!

Ness57 Thu 21-Dec-17 22:16:01

I remember when my son was 6 he saw me drying off after a shower and told me my boobs were like crinkly brown paper bags. From then onwards I always covered up and dread to think what at 35 years old he would think of my boobs now ?

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 21:51:31

And if he needs to see a real woman buy a mag from top shelf FFS. The woman's a perv if you ask me. Shudder confused

Overthehills Thu 21-Dec-17 21:47:18

Absolutely not! We were very open with our children and not at all prudish, but my sixty-three old body is NOT what it was! tchgrin

FlorenceN Thu 21-Dec-17 20:55:37

Needs to see a real woman?? Has he only seen clockwork ones before?

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:04:16

tchblush

Jalima1108 Thu 21-Dec-17 18:54:02

sarahhellenwhiteney especially if you were nude except for a Christmas hat! like this one tchgrin

I would be buying him a backpack and sending him off around the world so that he could get a few different experiences of life at 25!
It all sounds a bit weird to me.

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 18:46:25

It's very strange indeed. I didn't know that.

rafichagran Thu 21-Dec-17 18:35:46

No, and I dont think he would like it either.

Luckylegs9 Thu 21-Dec-17 17:28:55

Weird, I have often thought she is too much involved in her grown up children's lives. I would find it intrusive. Why would a 25 year old want to see his mother naked? I understand she does not let her own husband see her without clothes , which makes it all the stranger.

Lorelei Thu 21-Dec-17 16:51:45

No is the simple answer - I don't have a son and am by no means prudish but I wouldn't inflict the sight of my naked body on anyone at the moment, and even if I looked good for my age I would not want to embarrass myself or the adult child. Each to their own.