Dealing with my Husband's death

What a terrible shock you've had.
No words can make it any better
Kind thoughts x

I am so sorry to hear your very sad and heartbreaking news.
I cannot begin imagine how you are feeling, or find suitable words of comfort, but there are many here on GN, who have experienced such terrible sorrow and be assured, we are all here to support you.

So very sorry to read your sad news grannyjillyt, please accept all the comfort you can from family & friends, it feels of little help when you are at rock bottom, but you will need them there , even if only for the practical reasons, let them do what they can .my sincere sympathy to you.

I am so sorry, what a terrible shock. i hope you have family and friends who will support you, As will we on gransnet.
All good wishes jilly.

What a terrible thing to happen to you,there are no words that will help at the moment,just take it a day..or an hour at a time until you feel able to face it all.Let your family gather round you and help all they can and dont feel you have to stay strong,lean on others when you need to.Take care and be kind to yourself .

My heart goes out to you. Can’t imagine how you feel. So sorry, grannyTillyT.

That’s so sad grannyJilly. I’m pleased to read you have loving family and friends, but if you need to put things into words we will listen too.

So sad for you and your family grannyjilly take your time to comprehend what has happened and let your family help you. You can always talk to someone on GN .
You have all my sympathy, God Bless.

Oh grannyjilly I am so very sorry for you what a dreadful shock I do hope you have support around you and please please don’t feel bad about letting anything out on here it’s what life is about supporting each other when needed
Please take care xx

You must be reeling Grannyjilly, I cannot imagine how you are coping. My heart goes out to you.

Thank you everyone, I think I'm still in shock, it's early days I know, and I'm so tired. Tomorrow is another day someone once said.......

I am so deeply sorry, do feel you can talk here, I assure you there are people here who care, their concern and kindness and understanding gave me strength to carry on living .

Be kind to yourself , I do hope you have support x

GrannyJilly - so sad for you all. Take one moment at a time and do not expect too much of yourself. Rest if you are tired and accept all the help offered by family and friends.

I'm so sorry. You must be absolutely reeling from it all. You will find support here, so please carry on posting, when you're up to it.

grannyjilly what a great shock for you and all the family. So sorry for all you are going through. There are many on GN who will give you all the support they can. Please continue to post.

I’m so sorry grannyjilly. My thoughts are with you.

Terrible shock when so unexpected grannyjillyT. I can only echo what everyone has said, and do please come back to us soon.

Oh I am so sorry grannyjilly, what a really dreadful sequence of events you have had to live through, you poor thing. I wish there were words but there never seem to be any that are adequate. Please keep posting here, you will get lots of support and, well, just people to talk to. There will always be someone to listen and offer a virtual shoulder.

So sorry for your loss, sending you kind thoughts

You must be so shocked grannyjilly, I am so very sorry. We will support you here, of course we will. I’m pleased you have family and friends to be with you. A day at a time, please don't expect too much of yourself. I also don’t have the right words. Sending love.

So, so sad to hear this. A double blow. The only thing to do is take an hour or two at a time. I do hope you have happy memories to take out of the memory bank and you had a few hours to say your goodbyes. Let people help you, they will want to. Keep posting here. There are some lovely people with wise words.

I am so sorry Grannyjilly, the worst thing imaginable. I feel I can understand a bit of how you feel, just numb, as similar happened to me. I still really can't believe it even although it happen a few years ago. I found just trying to cope with a day at a time and not thinking about the big picture was perhaps the best way. It certainly took time to try to come to terms with the worst day of my life. If there is anything I could reassure you with please just get in touch. Thinking about you at this difficult time.

Such a dreadful shock for you grannyJillyT. I send you my condolences and hope you have help from family and friends in your loneliness. .

grannyJilly, I am so sorry. Please accept my condolences.