Annsixty I don't think you're cynical, just realistic about your very difficult situation. It must be really hard for you.
I've had experience of caring for three v close relatives with dementia and can relate to what you describe. What helped me was eventually realising I could feel grateful for their ability to always live in the moment - which those of us without Alzheimer's were struggling to achieve! But it is a cruel disease and I wish you courage and energy and send you my 'virtual' support. X
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), just finished prep for dinner tomorrow. Family and best friends out at posh dinner dance do! Quite content and counting blessings!


