Daughter in law

Allcrimson you can sort this yourself by taking down those walls you have errected, forgetting any hurts, being careful what you say and how you say it and apologise too if that is what it takes. Shed some tears and kiss and make up! Life is too short to nurse hurts and you are in danger of cutting off your nose to spite your face. Your family is your everything so don't throw it away. (((hugs)))

It seems a shame that this one incident mars a generally good relationship. Can you talk to her about it, try not to make a big issue of this comment.

Is she causing any problem to you? Or just a "wall"?

Good luck. Many of us on here have suffered from difficult DiLs and I don't think any of us have the answer.

I'd ask her to her face what it was you said that triggered that response.

What is it you are asking?