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Greenfinch Wed 14-Feb-18 09:54:36

I must be very unromantic.I have never sent one to anyone except my DH before we were married. I would never dream of sending one to DD or DGC.I don't see the point .Bah Humbug!smile

ajanela Wed 14-Feb-18 09:53:06

Why would you send family members Valentine cards? It is about romantic love. I think when they are older they will be very disappointed it was from their dad and not a boyfriend or they might presume it was from their dad and it was from a boy who was interested. How thrilling when you are a teenager to have a secret admirer!

Sharing a heart shaped box of chocolates with the whole family would be fun but maybe giving a family member a box because you don't think they have.a love interest might be making them feel worse rather than better. Many people are grateful to be single.

I think best to leave it to the romantic.

Teetime Wed 14-Feb-18 09:52:19

No i have never done that and DH and I don't do any of that either. I did give him some heart shaped chocs this morning but mostly as a little thank you for the nice birthday weekend he just gave me.

Telly Wed 14-Feb-18 09:51:04

Never occurred to me!

maryhoffman37 Wed 14-Feb-18 09:50:06

No, of course not! That would be weird and creepy.

GrandmaL Wed 14-Feb-18 09:47:12

DH sends one ‘ in secret’ to both DDs, has done for years so it’s a bit of a tradition. I think they think it’s sweet of him, one is 30 and single and one is 33 and separated so maybe those are the only ones they’ll get.
Not starting it with GDs though!

Harris27 Wed 14-Feb-18 09:47:08

Im amused by this as my granddaughter gets one of her mum every year? We do cards at nursery where I work and the children take them home . I hope this year my one unmarried son gets one and it leads to better things as he's still single!!just a mothers wish!!

mollie Wed 14-Feb-18 09:18:26

I sent one to my six year old GD last year but couldn’t find one suitable this year so haven’t. I left it too late to make her one, bad timing on my part. I suspect she won’t mind.

Marydoll Wed 14-Feb-18 09:12:12

My DD is in her thirties and engaged to be married. My DH sent her a card as usual, as he has done since she was a wee girl. However, we found it really difficult to find one that was appropriate! Every year he says that this will be the last time.

Humbertbear Wed 14-Feb-18 08:35:51

I gave my DD a box of heart shaped chocolates this morning. I think it must be very hard for her and all the other single people out there even tho we know that Valentines Day is just a hyped up commercial concoction. It’s easy to say ‘we ignore it’ when you are in a relationship. My 6 year old GD was here yesterday and made mummy and daddy heart shaped biscuits, a card and heart shaped paper chains! All her own idea. I think she is going to be a romantic.

HelpfulHands Wed 14-Feb-18 08:26:00

Hi Everyone,

Do you (still) send your kids/grandkids Valentine's cards?