Not a grandchild but my son. He was 5 when my mother died. A normally very boisterous boy, who was very close to his Nana, he was very quiet, no tears, tip toeing around me and so I gathered myself together to sit him on my lap to talk about how he was feeling. After my opening words, when I told him it was ok to talk about it and to show his emotions, he reached up and smoothed my hair back from my face in a comforting gesture and told me that yes, he was sad, but she was only his Nana and he was more worried about me because she was my mummy. Even today 18 years later I am filling up with tears over the fact that he was able to not only empathise in that way, but to verbalise it at such a young age. Still to this day, the one person I would love to share that story with is my mother!