morethan ..... there are no words which suffice, when life is so cruel. I am so very sorry for you, and your family. In my thoughts and prayers.
soop ... hoping the antibiotics are starting to take hold? I am going to take a slightly different stance and say that a little time out of bed is good for you, if you are feeling strong enough, as long as you don't DO anything!
Except eat cake, of course!
kitty ... worrying for your friend must be hard. Does she have family who can/will step in?
Also, a hug for panache .... hoping you may be feeling a little better.
And
to everyone else in the kitchen with worries, illness, or an overload of cares.
It really does seem to be an awful month 
x