JanaNana
Thanks for the clarity.
I was thinking of my own experience when looking for a private rental. One Estate Agent sent me a number out of the area in which I own a house and lived When I rang the number to make an appointment, they assured me they were privately rented flats but made no mention of assisted living.
On arrival (Woking) they were as I previously described. Elderly peolle in the sitting areas, aids in the flats and I had no intention of shopping trips, gentle exercise classes or coffee mornings with these ladies. It's just not my style, however, some may well be better run than others but all have to cater for the really elderly as you pointed out, whu h is perfect if you fit their profile.
Anyway, thanks for taking time to explain their role in more detail. 
AIBU to say that husband was irresponsible?
Good Morning Saturday 22nd August 2026
