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kittylester Sun 16-Sept-18 14:06:49

Crumbs, opening a new kitchen is a bit of a responsibility. I hope everyone finds it - I'll just leave the door ajar.

Bubbles and cake on the side - enjoy!

Synonymous Mon 01-Oct-18 23:36:31

soop please put some more photos up as we obviously will not be bored! What a gorgeous photo of Eilean Donan, it takes me straight back to some very happy holidays. Am assuming that is a lovely photo of youself - and taken by McS? smile

Panache Tue 02-Oct-18 09:49:40

Just a hasty but warm welcome home to our Mum and dad of the Kitchen,Soop and MacS.......delighted you enjoyed your well deserved break,and yes please more,many more pictures will be heartily enjoyed!

Excuse my briefness as I am feeling exceptionally "ruff" again so some time lying low is called for.

Thoughts very much with those struggling through those painfull issues such as yours Morethan whilst Ann I sincerely hope you are working slowly towards the inevitable.
Love to the hale and hearty!

cornergran Tue 02-Oct-18 09:58:21

Hope you feel stronger after a restorative rest panache. Was supposed to be out early today but ‘life’ got in the way. Better late than never as they say smile.

annsixty Tue 02-Oct-18 11:05:59

Hope "life" isn't too difficult corner.
Why so many problems for us all at this particular moment?
It is warmer here but damp.
I am so tired, my H was up and dressed at 10pm, then wandered the house for hours . Of course I can't sleep and
don't want to do anything today.
A very quiet day I hope.

kittylester Tue 02-Oct-18 11:42:25

It's weird isn't it ann that these things come in clumps. I hope your DH gets tired enough for a little sleep and then you must too.

Corner, didn't John Lennon (or some other know it all!!) say that life is what happens when you are busy making other plans. I hope life isn't too difficult.

Panache, lovely to see you. Please pop in when you can and let us know how your are.

Thinking of morethan and do wish there was more we could do than just thinking!

We went to stay in a log cabin soop, quite close to Invergarry. The log cabin should have been idyllic on the edge of the loch with only 5 other cabins and some sheep around. The man who owned the cabins was about 5' tall and hd one tooth (well DH and I notice these things!) There was furnishings in the place were mean and shabby, none of the crockery matched and, as a parting piece of advice, the owner said 'Oh, and don't drink the water, it's straight off the hill and I can't guarantee there's not a dead sheep in it!' shock

We waited until he had gone and then ran away. blush We found a lovely hotel not far away and had the most fabulous holiday.

I think I mentioned a while ago that a friend who has dementia lost her husband a little while ago. I discovered yesterday that the family have decided that the son (aged about 33) will give up his job as a sports teacher and move in with her to care for her. I am beyond shocked. That is so far from what my friend would have wanted for him. Her brother in law (who cares for her sister who also has dementia) has remonstrated with them all to no avail so I don't feel there is any place for her friends to say anything. What a waste! sad

And more sadness - someone DH was at school with, who farmed in the next village, has children similar ages to ours at the same schools, died at the weekend.

It does seem to be as ann says. Sadness of some sort everywhere!

Agus Tue 02-Oct-18 12:12:02

Ann, I have been racking my brain trying to find a solution to ensure you get the much needed sleep and peace of mind during the night that you so need. Is there any possibility your GP could prescribe a sleeping tablet for your DH thus ensuring no more night time wandering?

As I don’t know your DH’s full medical history or meds please accept my apology if this is a ridiculous idea. ?

Soop So pleased to hear of yet another gathering of the clan for you and yours.

I had a mental picture of following your journey of areas I love visiting and know so well. So lucky to have this on our doorstep.

Wonderful to see you in the kitchen again Panache. My thoughts were with you as you journeyed back here. My sincere hopes that you go from strength to strength and remember, as one former nurse to another, remember the advice you would be giving to your patients and obey your lovely DH, he certainly sounds like a keeper?

My heart goes out to you morethan A truly awful, heartbreaking situation . Sending you love and strength as you cope with whatever is ahead.

Greyduster Tue 02-Oct-18 12:55:24

Hello the kitchen. Having had a fairly awful weekend in the company of the black dog, just as I thought I was getting to feel a bit more at peace with myself, I have managed to put my back out (putting a pair of shoes back in the shoe rack!) so I am now stuck in a chair trying to work out my next move, or rather, the possibility of actually making one! DH (who has been very good - and so he should be as his were the offending shoes!) is trying to get the grass cut before it starts raining again, so no chance of a cup of tea and a biscuit yet ☹️! Or, if I can’t get back on my feet, the steak and kidney pud I was going to do for dinner ☹️☹️.
I don’t have much chance of catching up, so I will just say lovely photos of Scotland, and baby Max, and continue to lurk for the moment.

Agus Tue 02-Oct-18 13:16:26

?☕️. For you Grey. Feet up, look after yourself today whatever works to help you relax

That damned black dog strolls in and out here no matter how many times I shout at him to b....r off. ?

kittylester Tue 02-Oct-18 14:03:37

I'm sorry you are struggling gd. Fortunately the black dog doesn't visit here but bad backs are frequent visitors.

I was fed up until this arrived. Persie looking demure.........she isn't!!

aggie Tue 02-Oct-18 14:06:50

She is lovely ,and looks so sweet

soop Tue 02-Oct-18 14:36:02

Hello my lovelies one and all. You are very special peoples. Have I told you so of late? Yes! Well, there you go, as they say. wink

What a very pretty and lady-like pose of Persie She has poise.

Sorry to hear about the visit of the "black dog". It is a buggeration too far. A group (((hug))) is called for.

Home after the care home visit. The ladies picked up the conversation where we last cast off. Same small talk but it helps to cheer. That's the important thing.

I have hosework to throw my efforts into. No idea why I should. It's a woman thing. Or so I tell myself.

Here is the anniversary photo. MacSporran faffed about with the camera setting so that he could run across the room to join me, after which, the timer should have triggered the shutter. It took all of twenty minutes to get it right. There are several images of me shouting - "Come on. Do hurry!" Alas, MacS joined me for just one photo. It's not too bad. All things considered.

soop Tue 02-Oct-18 14:36:38

Housework...not hosework.

Charleygirl5 Tue 02-Oct-18 17:00:07

Kitty you are definitely mistaken, butter would not melt in Persie's mouth!!!!!!! How old is she now?

callgirl1 Tue 02-Oct-18 17:02:04

Lovely pic Soop, you look very glam, and MacS looks very gallant.
I`m sorry things aren`t too good GreyD, I hope you at least got the cup of tea and biscuits that you were fancying. No chance of your husband making that steak and kidney pud then?
Kitty, lovely pic of Persie, no chance that she could be anything BUT demure, looking like that.
Some charmers dumped a filthy old settee on the bank opposite us last night. Lynne backtracked on the CCTV and it was at 8.40pm last night, 3 men in a large white van, GRRRRR!!!! Now we have to look at it every time we go near the window, and it really is mucky!

Eilyann70 Tue 02-Oct-18 17:15:39

Lovely photo soop very glam - both of you! So glad you had a good break- well deserved!

mrshat Tue 02-Oct-18 17:20:00

Lovely anniversary picture soop. Here's to many more flowers

soop Tue 02-Oct-18 17:25:14

callgirl Disgusting people who think nothing of dumping litter and mattresses and sofas should be shot at dawn. During our trip around the Highlands, we were impressed with the lack of litter.
Said hello to David this morning. The site has one camper van in situ. A fortnight ago, it was packed.

Dear Greyduster My heart goes out to you. Back spasms are wicked. Feet up. Delegate. Us lot say so.

Ironing duty in the morning.

One last image from last night's photo call. We laughed when we saw the twinkle on MacS's upper tooth.

Bye for now. smile moon

cornergran Tue 02-Oct-18 17:31:24

It’s a funny old life at the minute but just a physical nonsense slowing me down this morning. Very swollen and painful foot, the big toe doesn’t bend, it was the search for a shoe that would fit that took some time. It’s improving, see what tomorrow brings.

Hope you are also improving greyd, the black dog is enough to deal with, you surely don’t need to have back pain as well.

Oh dear, kitty, there’s a lot of sorrow close to you. Isn’t life a weight sometimes? Persie has to be as angelic as she looks. I refuse to believe otherwise smile.

Can you get the council to remove that sofa callgirl? You have evidence it was fly tipped. People eh?

The photo was worth the difficulties, soop: you both look positively regal as well as happy

callgirl1 Tue 02-Oct-18 17:46:18

I`m going to ring the council tomorrow Corner if it`s still there, which doubtless it will be. What gets me is, they were able to drive down here to dump it, why not drive to the tip instead, it`s not much further?

NonnaW Tue 02-Oct-18 17:48:12

Lovely photos soop. So glad you had a good trip.

It’s our anniversary today - 8 whole years, and we both forgot blush. Well I had bought a card, but hadn’t written in it! We also forgot that we had booked cinema tickets for this afternoon for King of Thieves. Oh well, we couldn’t have gone anyway as we had to wait in for a courier to collect something DH sold online (still waiting actually).

flowers for all the sad and poorly people out there. Thinking (like everyone else) about morethan and her sad, sad situation.

Charleygirl5 Tue 02-Oct-18 17:53:44

callgirl they dumped it because white van man would have been charged whereas if he appeared as an ordinary householder in a car it would be free.

soop a lovely photo to treasure. MacS is as handsome as ever.

kittylester Tue 02-Oct-18 18:53:36

Sorry about your foot corner - it's only when things happen to them that we notice how important they really are!

Fly tipping really makes me angry, callgirl please hand over the cctv.

Lovely photos soop!

I've just talked to Persie who tells me she has found her first conker and she intends to offer it to a squirrel!

annsixty Tue 02-Oct-18 19:03:11

Lovely photographs soop you both look so happy and "loved up" as the saying goes.
It is dark really early here this evening.
Soon be clocks back and winter.

annsixty Tue 02-Oct-18 19:04:43

Sorry for your double trouble Greyduster I hope they both soon improve.

Charleygirl5 Tue 02-Oct-18 19:41:28

I agree ann the lights and heating are on earlier these days and I am also going to bed earlier but I do have 4 legged help in that department. Tara lets me know when I should be making a move towards bed unless like now she is fast asleep on top rather than inside her new bed.

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