It's weird isn't it ann that these things come in clumps. I hope your DH gets tired enough for a little sleep and then you must too.
Corner, didn't John Lennon (or some other know it all!!) say that life is what happens when you are busy making other plans. I hope life isn't too difficult.
Panache, lovely to see you. Please pop in when you can and let us know how your are.
Thinking of morethan and do wish there was more we could do than just thinking!
We went to stay in a log cabin soop, quite close to Invergarry. The log cabin should have been idyllic on the edge of the loch with only 5 other cabins and some sheep around. The man who owned the cabins was about 5' tall and hd one tooth (well DH and I notice these things!) There was furnishings in the place were mean and shabby, none of the crockery matched and, as a parting piece of advice, the owner said 'Oh, and don't drink the water, it's straight off the hill and I can't guarantee there's not a dead sheep in it!' 
We waited until he had gone and then ran away.
We found a lovely hotel not far away and had the most fabulous holiday.
I think I mentioned a while ago that a friend who has dementia lost her husband a little while ago. I discovered yesterday that the family have decided that the son (aged about 33) will give up his job as a sports teacher and move in with her to care for her. I am beyond shocked. That is so far from what my friend would have wanted for him. Her brother in law (who cares for her sister who also has dementia) has remonstrated with them all to no avail so I don't feel there is any place for her friends to say anything. What a waste! 
And more sadness - someone DH was at school with, who farmed in the next village, has children similar ages to ours at the same schools, died at the weekend.
It does seem to be as ann says. Sadness of some sort everywhere!