This all sounds wonderful and I am very envious of you all. I have a 15 month old grandson who I think the world of, who we see approximately every 2-3 weeks for a few hours when he, my son and daughter-in-law come over to Sunday lunch. DGS has unfortunately suffered a number of allergies and sensitivities to various foods, leading to many drs/dietician/hospital appointments - he suffered greatly from reflux, GORD etc for several months. It also took until he was a year old before he got into a good sleeping routine so they had loads of sleepless nights etc. The problem for me is that I am longing to be able to help out from time to time by babysitting but so far have only had 2 hours of being alone with him. He started nursery 3 months ago, again I was ready and willing to help out but DDIL preferred to have him at nursery for the 3 days a week that she is at work. I am trying so hard not to feel hurt by this, but find it hard to come to any other conclusion than that she doesn’t trust me to care for him. I am very fond of her, we get on well and she really tries to arrange for me to see him in-between times, we go out shopping etc (at her suggestion) so I don’t think she dislikes me. She has a very difficult relationship with her mother, not sure if this is relevant at all....sorry for long post, just wondering what anyone thinks about it ?. By the way, I have a very good relationship with my son who keeps telling me she’s just not quite ready yet...