Grans would always say "if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all"
Grannygravy: Mine too! My Mam was also fond of saying, to me, "You should know better at your age!" 
"Age" was a constantly changing variable!
Not sure if that doesn't apply here. 
AIBU to say that husband was irresponsible?
Good Morning Saturday 22nd August 2026
