You've beaten me to it HillyN! That's what my mum would have said. There must be very few people who haven't had their share of difficulties over the years.
I've had the disappointment of losing my DH in his mid-fifties - I expect he was p!"£$%d off about it too.
I agree that it isn't what happens to you but how you deal with it that makes the difference.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.