AndelID I think maybe you should just go. Your DIL may be feeling a bit sensitive after all she's been through, having a preemie baby and all the worry that would go along with that.
She's obviously trying to be kind by inviting you, and you could hurt her feelings by refusing. Many MILs on this forum are very upset when they are "left out" of things by their DILs and causes troubled relationships. You clearly have a thoughtful DIL who wants you to be involved.
Could you just go for a short while? Just my opinion!
I find it best to take my lead from my DIL and so far it's paid off. We get on well, and I see plenty of little GS as a result because she feels valued. Good luck.
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