All of my children were allowed to sleep with their partners at home, if you’re aware they are in a sexual relationship there’s really no point in putting them in separate rooms. I admit, like one of you ladies, I did start putting my sons young girlfriend in the spare room, when she frequently stayed, only because she was only seventeen, and I felt I had a duty of care. Their rooms were close together, and some way away from the other bedrooms, so I assume a bit of bed hopping went on, at least I’d tried!
In the seventies I was living with my boyfriend, we were never married, but we had a child, when we stayed with my parents, he had to sleep on the sofa! Why on earth did I put up with it?? It seems ridiculous now