EllanVannin. Yes! I didn't actually decide to stop but just didn't drink after my husband died because the children (still at school) had friends living all over the place and always needed picking up...
Years later I had the chance to go to the Salvation Army on Sundays. I had never lived near enough to join them for Sunday worship, not since when I was a student, that is, and in the first years of my marriage. I decided to join after several years. Of course, we don't drink, but not for the reasons people think. I won't pinch this topic to go on about it here though!
But not drinking makes you both healthier and wealthier!!
Mind you - other things are getting dearer! I love bottled water for example.
Also I don't miss alcohol at all! Even though when my husband was alive we used to entertain (it was part of his job) and I loved wine and used to order the wine myself for our formal entertaining 'dos' . But even now I don't fancy any!
I had a piece of a pudding at my daughter's once which had alcohol in (sorry - don't know what) and was alarmed. I thought the pudding had "gone off!" I couldn't eat it! It tasted like something bad! Luckily my son in law understood!