Do not struggle to recover so that you can sort things out; it will only delay your long term recovery.
Let your daughter come as often as she can, and look after you, not him.
This reaction seems to be fairly common; my father was useless when my mother had her hip operation, and even refused to have a bed brought downstairs so she had to crawl up the stairs to bed. Fortunately I was on maternity leave so was able to help.
A friend's husband actually went away to 'paint his mother's flat' after his wife had a bad fall; when we went to over to help (to look after his wife) and he was very grateful, because you could iron all these shirts for me and my son; twenty-two in all!
People are being very charitable, but I think there is a breed of man who actively resents his wife being ill, does not expect to have to look after her, and is therefore deliberately obtuse about nursing care.
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?