I would have paid to keep my husband far away from the garden. Came the day when I threw a hissy fit when he dug up a treasured Sumac which I grew from a seedling given me by a treasured friend before she died. He was allowed to cut the grass but was so often away when it needed doing that he got banned from doing that too.
I agree, get a gardener until you are up and running and make him pay for it.
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