So pleased to hear Gilly , that your husband is back with you and hoping things will start to improve, also hope your dental problem is getting better.
Sorry your NHS experiences have been so awful, just had to say we must have been luckier, Four years ago my other half got a diagnosis of lung cancer, then intensive radiotherapy, leading to fibrosis and COPD, living with that AND needed a
pace maker , THEN this year collapsed lung and plurodeseis (don’t ask,)Finally home with catheter. But we did have four weeks carers and district nurses. Mostly treated everywhere with kindness and dignity and lots of pills! During all this told he
has an aortic aneurism so monitored for that. He sees various
doctors on a fairly regular basis so hope for the best.
Really hope things will get better for you both, Gilly, and you can start to relax and get a bit of happiness now.