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Why do some people change user name

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TrendyNannie6 Thu 19-Dec-19 14:18:46

Since I haven’t been posting very long I wondered why people change their user names, what are the reasons please, is it because there is bullying on here, as I haven’t seen any, or what other possible reason is there to change your name thankyou

vinasol Sun 22-Dec-19 19:40:42

How do you actually change your username?

Rockingchair Sun 22-Dec-19 18:06:14

My original name was my well known nickname so thought it best to change it.

BlueSky Sun 22-Dec-19 16:54:17

Thank you notanan2 very interesting. grin

AllTheLs Sun 22-Dec-19 16:36:02

I know, Chestnut, I don't think they'll ever get over it!

notanan2 Sun 22-Dec-19 14:40:34

Can you be two usernames at the same time? I thought you could only change once and have just the one name.

Yes, you can re register with as many usernames as you like if you use different emails. The same IP address will show but thats not prohibitive as 100s of people can be using one IP address at a time.

Chestnut Sun 22-Dec-19 13:55:21

I think I know who you mean AllTheLs and I agree it was worrying. She seemed to be posting full-time. There were one or two others who are still posting under the same name and still arguing about the result!

BlueSky Sun 22-Dec-19 13:49:40

Can you be two usernames at the same time? I thought you could only change once and have just the one name.

AllTheLs Sun 22-Dec-19 13:43:25

There was one poster that took campaigning for Remain to the extreme. She posted daily, hourly, relentlessly arguing for her cause. So much that I began to worry for her mental health should Remain 'lose' after the election.

Well, they did lose and the poster hasn't posted anything under her username since. She probably felt entirely humiliated and embarrassed or perhaps was dreading the flack she would have received from others.

I have no idea whether she has reincarnated herself with another name and perhaps posts with less rancour in this new persona.

Chestnut Sat 21-Dec-19 23:21:27

Just checked the profile page and it says you can apparently have two usernames, suggesting that you use one for personal posts.
I also noticed a private message had been sent to me a week ago which I hadn't seen or replied to. I had ticked the box to send me an e-mail when I get a private post but never received one. Has anyone else had that problem?

NanaandGrampy Sat 21-Dec-19 22:34:55

And I totally believe you * Kitty * ?

Cherrytree59 Sat 21-Dec-19 22:07:45

Unfortunately posters don't seem to realise how easy it would be for a lurker to join up the dots (as another poster put it).

Over time a bit of info or a photo on one of the friendly threads, added at a later date to a scraps of info spotted on another regular threads, followed by a quick Google.

Posters often mention that they are away on holiday or visiting relatives.

I have posted before, when my father passed away, I was amazed how easy it was to find people that l wished to inform of my father's death and the date of the funeral service etc.

I used Google, company house and local authority sites e.g. planning dept (as I recalled a chance remark about a home extension).

A couple of hours and I had located (inc.addresses) and made contact with all three people that I had been looking for!

Fennel Sat 21-Dec-19 19:14:00

notanan2 I agree with you 100%.
We can't be too careful about what we post online these days.

notanan2 Sat 21-Dec-19 12:56:12

Ladymuck I used to have a specialist hobby. I was a member of a closed members club online. I say closed because only members could read the forums, but anyone could sign up to join.

There was a spate of thefts of specialist equipment. Posters baffled. They had their locations and photos of their kit on there! Might be coincidence but...

notanan2 Sat 21-Dec-19 12:54:04

I dont mean troll hunt but you shouldnt "trust" a wide open anonymous internet forum.

This is not accusing anyone of being "untrustworthy" its just sensible

kittylester Sat 21-Dec-19 10:48:35

Not wishing to disagree n&g but I have been me almost since the beginning and I'm fairly trustworthy!! grin

ladymuck Sat 21-Dec-19 10:38:20

I'm reassured that so many of you are careful about personal security. So many people on the internet share intimate details about their lives and then wonder why they get burgled or attract unwelcome attention.
Some sites demand a photo, I'm glad this one doesn't.

Grammaretto Fri 20-Dec-19 16:34:37

I changed my username soon after joining because, embarrassingly, I had chosen a very similar one to another poster. I don't know why that was allowed.

I may have put some personal things on but nothing which would harm others.

I've been to several meetups with Scots GNers so am now weel- kent.
I sometimes wish it was more private but if it had been I'd never have found it!

notanan2 Fri 20-Dec-19 16:31:19

The threads that overtly give GC details arent so bad as they get reported so dont stay up

The more risky ones are the posters who post "annonymously" about their GC on one thread having forgotten that on other threads they have already given enough details to identify their families

I post about my kids but I am careful not to identify us on other threads in ways other posters do

e.g.
The housemoving support thread, when we moved I lurked and was shocked that people were posting who their agents are, what moving firm theyre using AND their exact completion/moving days as well as specifics about waiting in for certain quotes visits being sent from their buyers. There are SEVERAL posters on their who have posted enough info over the course of the thread to be scammed or have their house identified and squatted in when it's vacant (there is enough info on their to do so).

People need to think about the bigger picture of what they are posting. Not whether each stand alone post sounds identifyable

notanan2 Fri 20-Dec-19 16:22:52

Quite Nana
You have to take a site like this with a pinch of salt
Trusting familiar usernames (that you havent met in RL) could lull some posters into a false sense of security

Also think that some posters forget that a thread isnt just a cosy conversation between the posters on the thread: for every poster there are 10 lurkers reading.

threexnanny Fri 20-Dec-19 13:53:23

I had to change my name when the site suddenly couldn't accept my e mail address for reasons unknown. I had another e mail address and logged in using that but it wouldn't let me use the same user name. So I have been THREEXNANNY and NANNYXTHREE!

TrendyNannie6 Fri 20-Dec-19 13:38:02

Totally agree with your two posts Chestnut, I think some people get a bit carried away as they post with whatever’s going on that they want to discuss, that they really forget it’s on internet and give out such personal info, it really wouldn’t take much to link everyone together if you were that way inclined

Fennel Fri 20-Dec-19 12:59:56

Not just the internet, but wasn't part of a thread posted in the Daily Mail once?

Chestnut Fri 20-Dec-19 12:55:52

There was one in particular notanan2 where the poster was expressing anguish over very personal problems between family members. This was described in much detail and included the children's and grandchildren's forenames! I was really shocked. That poor family have no idea their personal issues are being plastered all over the internet.

NanaandGrampy Fri 20-Dec-19 12:55:40

Of course there are those who change their names for far less open reasons than discussed as above. Sadly if keeping your username is considered enough by GNHQ to enable trust I suspect they're wrong. grin

BlueBelle Fri 20-Dec-19 12:21:51

I ve never changed my name I can’t even remember one let alone two
I never recognise anyone with a new name, totally unobservant, so all lost on me You are who you are and when others find you and call you out I m like ? ...really !!!