Not everyone has a good time at Christmas

Just read your post bluebell so very thoughtful. Can I make you the same offer?
Christmas is such a dichotomy!
I think you are echoing my sentiments
Thank you so much for putting this on gn!!
Sending you love and virtual hugs

Nice of you, Bluebelle. I'm sure there are many who appreciate the thought even if they don't take up your offer.

To the person who sent me a pm at 2.05pm I can’t answer I m not sure if you’ve used a different name or email address or something but it’s blocking me from sending an answer back to you
I didn’t want you to think I didn’t care x

We are lucky, lots of family around, and spent yesterday with good friends, but I’m a bit of a neat freak and the mess and chaos is hard for me to ignore!

Sorry all, I know it’s trivial, but the urge to clear up is overwhelming.

That's the thing. Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone and we need to bear that in mind.

My youngest son went to the pub last night with friends and a drunk man came in and asked if they had any rooms left (it's an Inn.) His wife had thrown him out and he had nowhere to stay. Of course we don't know all the story but how sad.

No, other people’s woes won’t get me down bingo having a bit of a downer myself and just thought sometimes hearing about everyone having a brilliant time is tough
I was thinking of others on here who may be finding it difficult but at the same time I guess I was selfishly thinking of me too
Xx

A very kind offer Bluebell. Thanks for thinking of it. I am fine thank you and I hope you have had a pleasant time yourself .

You are very kind Bluebelle. I hope you are not feeling too low yourself but in case you are sending you a virtual hug.

That is very kind of you but don't let other people's woes get you down. One can have an horrendous Xmas even with one's ''nearest and dearest''! Cruise next year anyone?

Thank you so much, this Christmas has been difficult for me.

That’s a really kind friendly offer and I’m sure some will be in need of a sympathetic ear.

Sadly lots of folk struggle at this time of year.

Lovely post bluebell ?

I think that’s a very kind and thoughtful thing to do BlueBelle (In a good way) I hope you don’t get too much response.

I hope you are alright in yourself. Christmas can indeed be a difficult time for some.

How kind ... I don’t need a hug, but it’s good to know it’s on offer ...
Sending a (virtual) hug and a bouquet back to you BlueBelle ?

That is a lovely post and offer Bluebell.
We are staying in a hotel with some of the family and there are a number of women here on their own.