@HettyMaud you've not met my daughter - she is a physically strong woman, taller than her father, I'd have hoped that the attitude that women were little and weak had died the death by the 21st century. Many women are physically very strong. Not just here, look at the women abroad who have to carry huge pots of water for miles many times a day
I have lost strength as I've aged, but I think that happens to men too, and often help I've needed from a man has been because he was physically bigger than I was, taller, with longer arms.