I came from a family where the mum stayed home and did everything for her family. I emulated that and did everything for mine, but I did work, at one stage 50 to 60 hours weekly as a nurse and we had an au pair who did the ironing and a share of the housework. Ive always done everything in the house, and am happy to do it. My kids though all grew up, became excellent cooks, all pull their weight in the house with cleaning and domestic chores. I cant sit for long, I like being busy, love cooking, enjoy cleaning. I still work, I do pretty much everything for my husband who is retired. Old dogs and new tricks. He has never cooked or cleaned a bath...he is in his 70s and I cant be bothered to try and teach him. If I die first he will no doubt get in a housekeeper.