You are enabling this relationship by not stopping the negativity. My mum became a really difficult person as she aged. She was so unpleasant non of us liked visiting her. At some point, when I had driven 4 hours to see her, I met her on her way out...it was nearly 10 in the morning and she said ‘if you can’t be bothered to come till the days half over, I’m not waiting in’. At that point I decided enough was enough. I told her she was so unpleasant none of us wished to visit. The month before my brother paid for 27 of us to go,out to a restaurant to celebrate my mums 80th. She had ordered her food...when it came up she sniffed it and said she wasn’t eating that muck. She sat there with a face that would sour milk. I spent twenty minutes telling her that the constant nastiness had to stop or she would drive us all away. She went into the kitchen, I’m pretty sure she shed some tears...but came out ten minutes later with a tray of tea. She changed noticeably after that, even my brothers said how she had reverted to the mum we knew and loved. Don’t let your mum spoil your life and your relationship. Yo7 both deserve honesty. You need to tell her you don’t appreciate your alcoholic brother being treated like royalty when he does nothing...and that she needs to acknowledge the help she gets from you. If you are no longer there...is your brother going to turn into super son? She needs to wake up.
Good Morning Thursday 25th April 2024
Gary Glitter programme Tuesday
Elderly fellow gran has become loudly racist
Washing bio gel or quid in the drum
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic