Menopause Depression spending

I think it is very easy to do when you are depressed.
I know 2 people , widowed, who spend and spend and to a limited degree I have done it myself.
It seems to compensate for what we have lost.
I hope you get this under control especially as you have to pay the money off.

Espee. I’m not blaming the menopause I’m simply saying that I haven’t been this way before. I am handling it the best I can. I was wondering if anyone has the feeling of being less in control.
I am different with the menopause , it has changed me but I don’t blame it , or anyone else. MSE is a good source of info

No comment at all but wanted to say I love your user name!

Actually, small comment. Some posters get het up if displays of ‘wealth’ get mentioned. Get ready for being asked if you volunteer, donate to food banks etc.
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Not done it myself, although I have been known to 'binge spend' within limits. Bet you're not the only person in this situation, though.

Esspee's advice is good.

I suggest that you make sure that your repayments are well-organised and that you have evidence of this. Then, if your husband does find out, you can show him that you have taken control of your brief aberration. You might still feel you're struggling but at least it will look like you're doing something about it.

Is menopause to be blamed for everything?
Suggest you take a look at Money Saving Expert website which shows how to get out of debt......and give your head a wobble!