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The Imp Of The Perverse

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MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 15:54:01

Have you experienced, or heard of this?

It's an urge to do something you never ever would, such as stepping in front of a car, or shouting at an inappropriate time, or anything, really.

Apparently its named after something in an Edgar Allan Poe writing.

I often have the impulse to pull the hair of whoever is sitting in front of me on the bus blush

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 19:48:08

Yes. I expect all those children grew up traumatised and then had intrusive thoughts as adults.

KatyK Thu 06-Feb-20 19:55:14

No slapping children is not at all funny. These are only thoughts. Of course most people wouldn't physically do anything.

BlueSapphire Thu 06-Feb-20 19:56:08

I too have the impulse to throw myself off high places, the last time was on Clifton Suspension Bridge. And I am terrified of heights. But I managed the Empire State Building, and the World Trade Centre (pre 9/11) in New York. Would not to up the Eiffel Tower though. I am due to go up the Shard soon - should I be worried?

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 19:57:21

Only if M0nica comes up behind you!

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 19:58:59

KayK

I was referring to MissAdventure and her post - There used to be an elderly woman who would hit all the teens on the bus. A real clip around the ear - they thought it was great fun.

I just thought that was abusive.

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 19:59:45

Not at all funny

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:01:17

Well, obviously. The poor old soul obviously had no impulse control; her imp was definitely intrusive.

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:02:31

Sad you find that sort of thing funny

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:05:22

Sorry. I'm unaware I said anywhere that I found it funny.
Perhaps you could point out where?

CanadianGran Thu 06-Feb-20 20:11:05

Oh, Ninarosa, that made me laugh. I do wonder if you were being an imp or really had an urge to upset your father!

I can't say I have any perverse impulses, but a friend once confessed to me she often had the urge/fantasy to swerve into incoming traffic while she was driving, causing a head on collision. I was a bit horrified to hear this, and almost wish she hadn't confessed this.

I do have urges to correct posture/language/manners, but I don't think it is really perverse. I do my best to hold back. Perhaps when I am older I can let the urges fly.

KatyK Thu 06-Feb-20 20:15:35

No I don't find that funny ananinmious I didn't read the post properly.

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:16:24

MissAdventure
Pass.
Sarcasm being the lowest form of wit.

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:17:36

I'm not being sarcastic, misery guts.

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:18:16

KatyK

Try to hold back and read the whole thread before you attack other members.

KatyK Thu 06-Feb-20 20:20:38

Did I attack someone? I apologise if I did.

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:21:09

No, it was my imp.

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:28:59

Accepted. No problem.

Chewbacca Thu 06-Feb-20 20:30:25

You know when you're lying in bed, half asleep, and you suddenly hear somebody shout something rather rude in the dead of night, but when you get up to have a look at what's going on, there's no one there? That was me.

I'd always wondered who did it and why. Now I know who did it but I still don't know why.

Curlywhirly Thu 06-Feb-20 20:34:14

Ninarosa that made me laugh out loud! Your poor dad, he must have been lovely for you to feel comfortable enough to torment him like that!

Chewbacca Thu 06-Feb-20 20:35:41

This was such a nice thread; something that many of us had never considered before and it's brought some really good responses. What a shame you had to put a spanner in the works again with your barbed and unnecessarily sharp comments ananimous. <sigh>

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:38:24

My apologies to those that think physical abuse is humourous.

Chewbacca Thu 06-Feb-20 20:40:16

Accepted. No problem.

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:40:44

Nobody did. Have you thought of taking up creative writing?
That's quite an imagination you have there.

MissAdventure Thu 06-Feb-20 20:46:22

Oh, I am sorry for being horrible, ananimous.
I don't like bad feeling. flowers

ananimous Thu 06-Feb-20 20:53:32

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