How do I tell them/

Presumably lots of parents will be in this position, so it may turn out to be quite difficult to find appropriate child care.

Maybe Summerlove has a point, sooner rather than later!

You need to tell them ASAP so they can look into other care.

I’m sure they will understand

I think we are all concerned about the children and grandchildren but we really should be keeping our distance. The parents need to make other plans and also for when the schools close or if they catch it. They cannot rely on grandparents in this instance, they need help from their own generation. I think the younger ones need to step up to the plate and help each other as people did in the past, either their siblings or friends.

Just let them know of your concerns for your husband's health. Perhaps they can find a childminder or local mum to take over for now. Don't wait too long either.

My son and daughter are keeping away with their kids as they worry about me. I'm 66 with just slightly high blood pressure and allergic asthma. I've started wheezing and coughing with the tree pollen this week, too!

I'm sure they'll have already thought about a contingency plan.

I am sure they are worried about you, people do not always put it into words. They would not want you to put yourselves at risk.

I think your grandchildren's parents will understand. They will, I hope, think of your health.

Let's hope it doesn't reach your town.

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Good idea M0nica

I would think they'll be just as worried as you are if the virus reaches your town.

I'm sure they would worry about you both getting ill.

I am feeling so guilty. If it was just me I would have them and take my chances but I can not inflict this on my husband it would be so unfair.

You will not be the only people in your situation. I suspect thousands of family's will be in the same boat.

Hopefully the governement will make some gesture towards families facing your dilemma. Why not contact your MP and ask.

They will not be able to rely on you if you catch the virus so I am sure they will understand.

They rely on us so its a problem.

I’m sure they will understand your concerns so just tell them.