Hello, Elizabeth,
we attended my cousin's funeral today. It was a graveside service and burial, no church service but that was my Aunt's wishes.
There were a fair amount of mourners, some stood well apart, social distancing. Although I had heard about no handshakes/ hugs at funerals now, most people shook hands with the bereaved mother. Many were wearing gloves.
After the interment, we retired home, although we were all invited to the traditional funeral tea.
Not sure if this will help you, Elizabeth 1, every situation is different and personal.
So sorry for your loss.