I was 8 and my sister was 6 we were at school , I went out to the loo and when I came out I heard the headmistress talking to my form teacher about my mother who had been rushed into hospital and was not expected so survive and that she was to tell me that my mother had some important business to deal with and we were to be taken to the headmistress office and she would look after us until we could be picked up. My father picked us up much later that afternoon and carried on with the same story , we went to my Grandma's and again she stuck to the same story , I was so scared I didn't tell my sister and had no one to talk to , eventually I broke down at school and told the teacher my mummy was dead , she phoned my father and they sat and told me that my mother had been very ill but was going to be ok ,I have never forgotten how scared I was and how no one thought to just sit us down and tell us the truth .
Have anyone ever hesitated to get help at home because of not much reassurance


