I've discovered my "default" setting.......

I think that sitting and pondering about what you shouldcould be doing can be very soothing. Everything needs to be planned and planning is a very joyful occupation.

I don't post much but love this thread. It's me to a a tee. Loads of activity first week but my motto now is,
Today I plan to do nothing so if I do anything,I will have achieved something. ?

Perish the thought, Grandmafrench

Perhaps I should have said "Nothing to see here, move along" (at your preferred pace, of course)

Ah ... unless they’ve infiltrated to try to shame us Grandmafrench
(wasting their time. Oh, that’s us?)

Phoenix, I am so glad that I'm not the only one. Feel so less guilty now!

Now phoenix not cool. You'll just ruin it if you get over-defensive. The CBA-ers' attitude should be 'don't mind if I do, but would much rather I don't. Don't fret, busy people will start their own work thread, they don't need to be hanging around here for days waiting for something to happen. Imagine that, eh?

phoenix just brilliant!!

Good point, Grandmafrench but then there'd be all that plucking, pulling and drawing, don't think I CBA.

Oh, and BTW, those that want to post regarding how much they have managed to get done, bu**er off and start your own thread! this one isn't for you

(Actually, quite surprised you managed to find time to post on here, what with crocheting your own bean poles and converting slippers into dumplings)

Oh ladies, I’m crying here, catching up!
Fabulous thread isn’t it?
Laughterlines ?
Barmeyoldbat ? love your idea of a badge! It would have to be an acronym that only us lot would appreciate!!
Something like ... BURP ... or .. SOFA ..

Bugger, I’ll have to jolly well THINK of something now.
Jeez.
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I am so glad I am not the only one who has discovered their "inner Slut". I knew it was lurking there for years but had to lock her away and "be good". Now I am almost 88 and my hands and legs dont seem to want to work any more, I have a feeling she is here to stay! Oh! Well as I am still living alone I am pretty well isolated as it is and things are not likely to change, my dear family are caring and helpful but not nearby and visit whenever they can, so lock-down has not changed life for me very much. I am one of the lucky ones but many more older people are not so well placed. Remember them and go on helping them when this is all over.

Oh, I am so pleased to find a hoard of kindred spirits on here, I like many of you feel the need to "sort out things" but the need does not get "sorted" !! My OH is a great believer of "oh, it will get done another day", trouble is we have had lots of "other days" recently, but nothing has got done. I am so fortunate to not have OH that wants things in a pristine condition and looking like a show home, we even seem to just be "snacking on food", I can cope with that!! Less washing up........just going for a lie down sending this has worn me out!

Oh god cc Fortunately DH has interited the housework gene from his mother and is scurrying around as I write my husband to a tee! I’ve told him countless times he’d make someone a lovely wife.
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Your post made me laugh widgeon the comment from your daughter was priceless!

Definitely 2 jobs lovebeigecardigan ‼️
Don’t undersell yourself lady.
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Why do today what you can put off until tomorrow...?

Think positive thoughts, phoenix - if you can manage to spot another 23 of the little devils, there'll be enough for a pie.

I think we need a badge to wear, just like the NHS staff and the Care Staff. We could all wear it with pride and a smile on our faces. I could think about designing but actually doing it is another thing. Back from cycle ride, lunch has been eaten as has the coffee been drunk. No washing up to do cause it was a takeout. Now going to sit in garden and think until tea time.

Be terribly careful, PennyWhistle - follow most of the advice given on this thread otherwise you will wonder how you EVER had time for paid/full time work !

Relax......and......breathe Laughterlines, you've spent too much time on those Liars of Instagram pages.

Living in the last but one house of a cul de sac, traffic noise isn't a problem, but I'm starting to harbour feelings of a less than generous nature towards a certain blackbird.......

This is a fabulous discussion! Thank you all for making today smile. DH and I are going to give up work next week. We are not saying that we are retiring - just giving up paid/full time work

We have plans to achieve so much in the home and garden - but I like your plans and ideas soooo much more than the list we have.

How exciting to have time to do .... nothing!

I was a bit worried that it was only me who didn’t get up at sparrow fart to walk the five rescue dogs in the woods and come back to three course breakfast cooked and cleared up by DH. Then had several lines of washing blowing on the line before voluntary duties until lunch which is usually leftovers transformed into something utterly delicious and then redecoration of guest bedroom and redesign of own and neighbours back gardens and terraces. Tea consisting of pot of tea and well risen sponge cakes and several varieties of home made biscuits before zoom meeting with teen grandsons and help with philosophy homework before home cooked meal with veg from the allotment. Then run up few scrubs and crochet blankets for refugees before bed at 1 am

Me i’m Lucky if I get out of PJs .

Evie64

I'm so glad that I'm not alone.

At the moment I'm busy reading Gransnet, then perhaps I'll go onto Mumsnet. That should take me a couple of hours. Then perhaps I'll have a sit down...

I find I'm sleeping later in the morning as well. I assume the traffic noise used to wake me, no longer.

I'm up and at it. Walk straight after breakfast, followed by household chores of the day. Then I can sit and relax in the garden with a book after lunch. Just can't get motivated to tackle the garden, though! Ah well, at least the bees are enjoying my dandelions!