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Do you ever wish you could still be a child?

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vampirequeen Fri 01-May-20 10:19:23

I happened to me today. Whilst out walking we met a most peculiar man. He was tall and dark, wore a battered bowler hat, gabardine raincoat, thick working boots and had a piece of rope tied around his waist with a dog on a lead attached to it. We said, 'Hello', and a cheery word as we passed each other on different sides of the lane. The child in me was desperate to ask this mysterious stranger if he was the Crow Man but the adult in me wouldn't allow it in case it caused offence.

But that's how he looked.

I'm sure today I met the Crow Man.

Alishka Fri 01-May-20 11:59:53

A friend's daughter looked in awe at a completely bald gentleman and said, politely "hello, man....what happened?"

SalsaQueen Fri 01-May-20 13:40:40

The innocence of children... I don't wish I was still a child, but it would be nice if children today were not so aware of things (violence, things going on in the world).

When one of my sons was about 3, we were on a crowded bus when he pointed at a black woman and said: "Look at that lady". I was mortified, as I thought he'd meant her colour - he was referring to a woollen hat she was wearing!

Tangerine Fri 01-May-20 14:35:02

Only occasionally. I think my personal life has got better as I've aged.

lemongrove Fri 01-May-20 16:05:28

VQ do you think you went back in time? I remember a local tramp who looked like that.
I would only wish to be a child again if it was me 'inside' ...then I could do things better [also to put money on Red Rum ].

Maggiemaybe Fri 01-May-20 16:53:11

We lived in a Workingmen’s Club the year that Foinavon won the Grand National at 100 to 1. There was a mysterious bookie’s hut with blacked out windows in the back yard and one of the jovial regulars put a shilling for me on the horse of my choice. I chose well. grin It’d be nice to go back to that day and put the contents of my piggy bank on it.

Purplepixie Fri 01-May-20 17:00:29

Yes often just to spend time with both of my parents. They were the best days of my life, only I didn't realise it at the time. Sadly my lovely dad died when I was 19.

3nanny6 Fri 01-May-20 17:00:55

I wish I could still be a child when it comes to cooking and housework. When I was young my mother kept a spic and span clean house and always meals cooked lovely all from fresh. Everything was ironed even all the bed sheets.
Never fully realised how hard she worked until I had my first child, suddenly grew up overnight and then I was doing all that stuff. Mother you were the best!

Jabberwok Fri 01-May-20 17:02:21

Yes,I'd love to be a child again, before my Grandparents died. Like Lemon though, I would do some things differently, (hindsight!!) but by and large it hasn't been too bad!!

Jabberwok Fri 01-May-20 17:04:48

I had lovely parents too, how lucky was that!!

vampirequeen Fri 01-May-20 17:08:16

Lemongrove...you know it was really weird. Things did seem odd but I can't put my finger on how. That's what made me think I'd met the Crow Man.

Nannylovesshopping Fri 01-May-20 17:11:34

Most definitely not!

sodapop Fri 01-May-20 17:54:04

Yes for the freedom we had back then. Out all day on our bikes, very few restrictions on where we could go except on Sundays. The simple pleasures we enjoyed then, a weekly comic, bag of sweets from my father at the weekend. I know I'm looking back through rose tinted glasses but the good memories remain.

JeanGenie14 Fri 01-May-20 18:04:22

Oh yes- I miss my parents so much, especially my mum. Her cooking was the best, we had some lovely times as children. I’m lucky I have two wonderful sisters, only 4 years between us. God bless you mum and dad?

Alexa Fri 01-May-20 18:27:41

He wasprobably a famous author, Vampire Queen.

BTW what sort of dog was it?

Jane43 Fri 01-May-20 19:04:48

Oh yes. When I walked our dog today I passed several areas covered in bluebells and thought back to when I was a child, out playing with my two friends and we used to go to the woods and pick bluebells for our mothers and take them home. Sadly my two dear friends have now passed away, there is only me left and I would love to go back and relive one or more of those days. We all had loving parents and spent a lot of time with each others’ families, we didn’t realise at the time how special those years were but we did talk of them later.

Purplepixie my Dad was lovely too and he died when I was 22, something that still makes me sad.

SueDonim Fri 01-May-20 19:22:20

No, I much prefer life as an adult.

What is the Crow Man? I’ve never heard of him. I know I could Google but it’s nicer to hear from Gransnetters!

GabriellaG54 Fri 01-May-20 19:23:50

I would love to have my childhood again, exactly as it was. Such a very happy time and many wonderful memories.

kittylester Fri 01-May-20 20:59:50

No thank you!

Anniebach Fri 01-May-20 21:15:10

Yes, all that love, a large extended family, great community,
the safest place in the world, until 1966.

EllanVannin Fri 01-May-20 21:20:22

Good job we have got our memories because kids of today haven't.

vampirequeen Fri 01-May-20 21:21:51

I'm not very good with dogs but I think it was a boxer.

The Crow Man is a mysterious character who wanders the country. He's at one with nature and understands it in ways we can't. A sort of Green Man but looks human. In the Worzel Gummidge stories he is the maker of the magic scarecrows.

cornergran Fri 01-May-20 21:25:36

Nope, wouldn’t want to be that child again.

NanKate Fri 01-May-20 21:26:58

When I was a child we were on the bus going into Birmingham, I saw my first black man sitting near us. I turned to him and said ‘Are you made of liquorice’ ? Fortunately he laughed.

I would love to be a child again, but with the knowledge of life I have now.

Missfoodlove Fri 01-May-20 22:28:54

Definitely not.