Today I’m having a party ?

Not irresponsible at all - following the rules to the letter and some, I reckon! Many people* decided to do this sort of thing over the weekend. Lovely garden by the way!
* whole new thread waiting to be created about the definite phenomenon of people, including on GN and in my own family,somehow subconsciously thinking rules have changed when they haven’t. It’s not deliberate. Perhaps it’s just a way or coping.

It sounds lovely and you seem to have thought of everything!

We are so lucky that this wonderful weather is continuing aren’t we?

We have had family round individually and like you we’ve been in the garden and they only came in to use the downstairs loo.

Ours have brought their own food though!

I spent Saturday with my family for the first time since start of March.
I honestly felt like I had had a holiday
I don’t think we were as well organised as you but we did our best !
Many many undistanced groups in the parkland near me yesterday though.
People walking together etc

Oh God send in the troops I only have one toilet ??

It sounds wonderful Pamela have a great time

Sounds absolutely lovely PamelaJ1 hope you have a wonderful time, I’m going to dinner tonight in my daughters garden, so looking forward to that very much.

pamelaj please take my post as a bit if fun..
I wish you a very happy day.

My son and dil came around on Saturday and my goodness I enjoyed it. All social distanced if course.n

Hetty, it will be very relaxed, why wouldn’t it be? Actually it’s a relief to have something to plan and do.

That's an awful lot of preparation and work - it won't be a relaxed get together with distancing - so I'll stick to Zoom for now!

Well done you Pamela - all precautions taken and distancing complied with so a good time will be had by all!

Blimey I would think you need recommendations for exhaustion!!