I spoke by Messenger to my DS and DIL in Australia, on her due date, and nothing was happening. Next day I was surprised to see a family group message that she had had an emergency Caesarian.
I heard nothing more for two days, then just a quick message to say they were all ok. It was almost a week later, two days after she arrived home, that I finally got a proper chat on Messenger, and met my new grandson.
Having your first baby can be a hectic and traumatic time. I was dying to see the new arrival, but they had more important things to occupy themselves with, and knew that I would understand.
He is almost a month old now, and I have just finished chatting with them, and seeing the baby up close. Your new little family will soon find time, too, when things calm down. Don’t tell them anything about feeling left out. Just enjoy being a granny, and look forward, as I am, to lots of cuddles in the future.