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The WI what is your experience

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Susan56 Wed 26-Aug-20 18:52:05

I tried a local WI and found it didn’t really have room for new members.Had the whole saving a chair for a friend thing going on.I gave it a couple of tries but decided it wasn’t for me.

NotTooOld Wed 26-Aug-20 16:13:20

I did try it once, Judy, but the speaker was so boring I nearly fell asleep. I also found it embarrassing having to sing Jerusalem as I'm not that keen on public sing-songs. If I moved house and needed to make friends I would probably try again.

Judy54 Wed 26-Aug-20 15:04:25

There were a couple of comments on another thread entitled Only the Lonely about the WI being unwelcoming. Mine was fine until I came off the committee due to my Partner's health problems and realised that their only interest in me was what I could do for them rather than what they could do for me. I continued as a member but was often unable to attend and no one made contact to see how I was let alone how my Partner was, the expectation was that I should keep them informed. All I needed was a kind word and a little tlc. During lockdown I have heard nothing except for general emails addressed to all members. Yes I have also found the cliquey groups within, all friends who have been going for years. They don't invite others to sit with them but say they are saving that chair for a friend! Sorry I thought this was a friendship group but not sure I will be returning once they re-open. What is your WI like?