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Strange Facebook friend requests

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Elegran Sun 15-Nov-20 20:21:29

Just delete them - don't even decline, that shows that you have reacted. They may be friends of friends, but they may also just be chancers who send a friend request to every facebook poster they view, and that could be dozens a day, hundreds if they belong to a lot of groups or respond to a lot of pages.

When I first joined Skype, my username was my name plus the last two digits of my year of birth ( I had to add a number.) I received loads of friend requests from blokes who described themselves as "generals in the US army", complete with photos of muscly men in uniform. I decided enough was enough and changed my username to be my name plus my age, which was a much larger number than the previous one. The supply of new friends dried up instantly.

I was telling an ex-forces friend about this recently, and added that the US army must consist of all generals, and no privates. I won't repeat his reply.

Daddima Sun 15-Nov-20 19:53:07

I always do report the pages, but when I checked one a few days ago the page had disappeared. It does seem a rather roundabout way to ensnare gullible females, but I’m sure on the TV programme about the man who murdered his wife and daughters they said she had met him through a Facebook friend request.

MrsThreadgoode Sun 15-Nov-20 19:34:59

Most people don’t realise that their FB Friends might not have a privacy setting so that your details may be available to others.

moggie57 Sun 15-Nov-20 19:18:09

you need to check your security and friends lists ...other than that dont add them as a friend decline and delete....

Aldom Sun 15-Nov-20 19:14:47

I have received two or three similar requests from men. I delete them and also click the 'scam' button.

Daddima Sun 15-Nov-20 18:47:40

Since the Bodach died I have been receiving friend requests on Facebook from single men. Their profiles show only one picture, and most of them have only had posts made within the previous hour. They are usually in America. Now I did not say on my page that I am widowed, and it may be coincidence, and these are possible scammers. Has anyone else received these? I’ve attached a sample .